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Porpavai Kasiannan Hello, my name is Porpavai Kasiannan. I’m a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist based in Melbourne, Australia, but I also work in India in an NGO which trains professionals in Child and Adolescent Mental Health. I have been working as a Psychiatrist in Child and Adolescent Mental Health for the last 30 years. I’ve also worked in the UK for a period of two years in my career. So, today, I’m going to be talking about “Principles of Parenting Infants.” We know that the birth of a baby stirs the strongest emotions in adults, particularly parents. Whenever we see an infant, there is a joy in interacting with the infant and its parents, in general, all over the world. And infants, by their very presence, alter the parent, their lives and relationships, to an extent that they’ve never experienced before. And parenting an infant is not an easy job. It is a 24/7 job, which involves a lot of nurturing, soothing, and attending to the comforts and discomforts of the infant.
Human infant is a little bit unique in the animal kingdom or amongst mammals, because it is totally dependent on their caregiver for survival. Unlike other mammals who – that are able to walk and move and seek their food soon after birth, infants cannot do that without the help of a competent caregiver, even to seek the food that they need for survival.
The United Nation estimates that around 385,000 babies are born each day in the world, which is about 140 million a year, and each one of these babies is unique and special. Although infancy is only a small proportion of our human life period, it – but it is a period that parents are most attentive too all around the world. Infants engender feelings of responsibility and solicitude in the adults who care for them. They’re fun to observe, talk to, and play with.
Although infants are innocent and not malicious or deceiving, they can make undeniable demands on their caregivers. Infants develop rapidly, transforming from helpless being to competent and curious and frustrating and frustrated child. Why do we need to understand parenting infants? We know that significant proportion of new parents are concerned about their infant’s development and are unsure if they are parenting right. They have a lot of doubts about whether the infant is getting enough food, enough nutrition, enough sleep, and so on and so forth. And approximately 30% of general practice consultations concern child behaviour problems.
Early onset and established behaviour problems have lasting effects on children’s physical and mental health, and most of these problems can be identified in infancy. And parenting is a crucial causal factor and also a maintenance risk factor in development of these behavioural problems. Despite a lot of research and understanding in different fields of studies, psychology, anthropology, and sociology, parenting still remains a most baffling subject to understand. And parenting has changed over generations due to the various biopsychosocial factors that impact human life, the babies, and their parents, and societies.
What is infancy? Infancy defines the period of life between birth and the emergence of language, which is approximately one to – one and a half to two years into childhood. Our generic term, “infant” and “baby,” both have their origins in language-related concepts. The word “infant” derives from Latin “in” plus “fans,” translated literally as “non-speaker,” and the word “baby” shares a Middle English root with “babble,” just second to babbling.
Parenting responsibilities are greatest during infancy, when the child is most dependent on caregiving as the child has no ability to survive alone. Most of this presentation, the research that I have gathered the information from is from the Western world or the developed nations. There is little research on this subject in the low and middle income countries, although there are some, where it is relevant, I have referred to those literature, but most of this, I should say, that is based on the Western literature.
Let’s look at the brief history of parenting infants. All cultures around the world recognise infancy as a distinct stage of human development, which is also the first stage in human development. Speculation on this subject dates back centuries to ancient Egypt, the Code of Hammurabi, and pre-Socratic Philosophers. Spartan child rearing practices included reports on parenting, and Greek Philosopher, Plato, theorised about the significance of infancy. But in 19th Century, Darwin’s observations about – of his own infant son led to writing of “Biographical Sketch of an Infant.” So, this gave a great impetus to other infancy studies. Many baby biographies followed, important one being Piaget in 1952, whose writings and theorising refer chiefly to the observations of his own young children. And he developed the cognitive development theory in children – infants and children.
Before public health advanced preventing infections and early deaths, parents might have resisted emotional investment in their infants due to the high infant mortality, but that has changed now. Infant mortality is reduced in majority of the cou – developed countries, and it’s also reducing even in the low and middle income countries. Prior to 1970s, parents were not viewed as active shapers of their children’s behaviour or personality. However, today, advice on parenting infants is abundant online and offline, which probably started with “Dr Spock’s Baby and Child Care” book in 1946, and “Your Baby & Child” by Penelope Leach in 1978. Currently, articles abound in periodicals and online forums, along with magazines dedicated to pregnancy and child-rearing, with huge amounts of advertising materials targeted at infants and parents in these magazines.