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Samantha Chapman Hello, I’m Sam Chapman. I’m a Registered Mental Health Nurse and Specialist Practitioner in Mental Health. I’ve got a Master’s in Public Health and Health Promotion, and I’m currently doing my doctoral research, exploring how schools can help children to have good mental health. For that research, I really wanted to find out more about what exactly is good mental health? What does that look like in a child or a young person? And how can we promote it more, so that children can grow and develop good mental health within themselves?
And this presentation is going to be talking you through some of the things that I found around what exactly is good mental health? What does that look like, and how it can be promoted? So, I’ll discuss those elements with you, but, initially, I will just give a little bit of information, just around the difference between good mental health and mental illness, for the purpose of understanding where this presentation is coming from. So, what does good mental health look like? So, for this presentation, good mental health involves, kind of, the whole spectrum of mental health. So, if we see this diagram here, and all of the purple area is representing mental health. Most of it is good mental health, and some days we have really good mental health, and some days we will have maybe, kind of, mental health that isn’t as good, but we wouldn’t consider ourself to be unwell. And, mostly, when we talk about good mental health, it’s all of this area here that you can see highlighted.
The information that I’m going to share with you today about what exactly does good mental health look like sits within that area, highlighted “good mental health.” But when I’m talking about “promoting good mental health,” I’m talking about that for everybody, including people who perhaps have poor mental health at the moment. So, thinking about, how do we move those people from a position of having poor mental health to giving them the things that they need, the knowledge, the skills, to move them into having good mental health?
So, the next few slides that I’m going to show you are talking about, what exactly is good mental health, and what does that look like? So, we’re thinking about what are the characteristics that we would see in somebody who has good mental health? And this information that I’m presenting has come from my research, from some work I’ve done that’s looking at academic literature that talks about “good mental health in children and young people.” So, one of the first important elements that somebody will demonstrate when they have good mental health is social connectedness. They’ll have a sense of belonging, they’ll have good friendships, and they’ll have a sense of right or wrong. So, this sense of belonging is really important, it’s finding their place in society, finding their place in their life. So, I know I belong at home, I know I belong at work, I know I’ve got good relationships in the area that I live in, that I belong in these different areas.
The next thing that would be demonstrated in somebody who has good mental health is them engaging in positive coping skills. So, there’s lots of different ways in which a young person can, kind of, work with the challenges that life faces and the difficulties that they have. It’s thinking about them having those skills, so that when they’re in those situations, they know what skills they can use to help them through those difficult times. So, it’s essentially having the skills to cope, and we call this “self-regulating,” what do I need to do to, kind of, look after my health, to manage my emotions that might be coming up during these difficult times? And emotions are normal, we feel different emotions in different situations, so it’s about how do we manage those and, kind of, either work through them, or do things to help ease the discomfort of them.
The next thing is engaging in health promoting ways of being, so physical activity, eating good food, good sleep, talking about our feelings, and having opportunities for different growth. The next thing is that young people with good mental health demonstrate having hope, there’s something to work towards, they know there’s something good waiting for them, that there’s positive things in their future. The next thing is a – what we’re calling a “developed formation of self,” so this is about the young person knowing who they are, that they’ve got, “This is who I am, these are my interests, this is where I’m sharing my interests, or working on my interests, I’m developing who I am, my own personal identity.” And when we do that, that increases our self-esteem, our self-awareness, and our self-confidence, ‘cause we’re doing the things that make us feel like us. They make us feel like, this is important to me.
The next thing is autonomy and agency. So, people with good mental health demonstrate an ability to have control over themselves, control over their life, control over the decisions that they make. And I know with children and young people, this is a little bit more difficult, because as adults we do put in measures to some degree of control, because we need to protect children and keep them safe. But in this – in my research, it’s shown that perhaps we need to let go and give a bit more freedom to some of the rules that perhaps aren’t essential, and really just maintaining those essential ones, so children have got a bit more choice and a bit more freedom about their own life and their everyday way of being.
The next one is having good interpersonal skills, so a child that has good mental health has good communication skills. They feel they can express themselves clearly, and that they will be listened to, and they’re also able to reflect on situations, and think about what works, what doesn’t work, and what they would benefit from. So, how do we get a young person to the point where they’ve got all of these skills? What are the things that promote these characteristics? So, the next few slides that I’m going to show you come from the work that I’ve been doing, and they give us some ideas about how we can integrate some different things into the world, the life, of the child or the young person, that will enable them to develop good mental health.
So, drawing on some of the things we’ve spoken about, hobbies and interests and having those social connections and social relationships are really important. Relationships from Teacher to the child at school, relationships from parents and other adults to the child, and relationships with their peer group, and really building up a peer group around hobbies and interests, so they’re around likeminded people, in environments where they feel comfortable. And children are telling me they just want to know that people like them. They just want to know that they’re liked and that they feel valued by other people and that they’re important.
The next slide is about having a secure and safe base, so to have good mental health, children need to have a secure home, a secure and safe area in school, and have security within their relationships, and having a safe and secure base in other areas that children might go to. The next thing that we can do is around creative play, stories, reading books together, and having pets. This came out of the research that I’ve done, and I’ve grouped these together, because interestingly, my research was in a secondary school, and I think when I was talking to people they were saying, “By the time they get to secondary school children aren’t interested in these things,” but, actually, it’s so important that we do this with children across all ages, that they have these opportunities for creative play, whatever that looks like. It might be going to a skate park with somebody who likes skateboarding, or it might be sitting reading a book out loud together and sharing that experience. And pets are also really useful developing that sense of security and secure base and those relationships, even with animals.
The next one is having opportunities to actually develop good mental health, so opportunities for – to grow their self-esteem, opportunities that will help them develop who they are, opportunities for having rest and good sleep, and opportunities for doing things that promote their sense of feeling good. What makes them feel good? What do they enjoy doing? And opportunities to do those things. The next thing is, as we’ve already mentioned really, is about increasing control and choice that children have, so thinking about how we can integrate that in everydayness. So, how can we give children more opportunities to feel like they’re having a choice and are making decisions in their own life? It can be something simple like children choosing, you know, maybe what they want for tea one night a week, or laying the food out on the table so they can self-serve themselves, rather than having food plated up, choosing the type of clothes that they want to wear or the hairstyle that they have, all of those things can really add to a child feeling they have control over who they are as individual people themselves.
The next thing is about adult and child relationship, that that’s a respectful and mutually reciprocal relationship. That adults don’t promote vulnerability in children and that children feel safe with adults and well-respected, and that adults are in tune to recognising that children need freedom and choice, but they also need to be – kept feeling safe and secure, as well. And so it’s having a balanced environment of being protective in the right areas, but not so protective that it takes away children’s sense of freedom and, like, they have space to grow and evolve into the people that they want to be.
And then the last one is about access to information and support. So, this really for me, it talks largely about access to mental health services, or services that promote children to develop an understanding of their own mental health and wellbeing. And we know that mental health services at the moment are really struggling with capacity, and so it’s thinking about how can we support children to get that information in alternative ways? And so, I’ve put a photograph here, an image of a woman doing yoga, and that’s just to remind me, I guess, to give you the example that that information can come from different areas, like, you know, going to somewhere like a sports club, or going to play football on a weekend, if that’s something that helps children to feel good and healthy, it’s about we can say to children, “Out of ten, ten being you feel great, and one is you feel terrible, how good do you feel when you play football? Like, how much do you love it?” And if they say, “I feel nine,” or, “ten,” then we know that this is something we can encourage them to do. I use the out of ten analogy a lot with my own children, so saying to children, “This – we can see that this helps you feel good, so more of this is really useful.” You can also use the out of ten when children don’t want to do something, so, “I really don’t want to go swimming tonight,” “I really don’t want to go to Scouts,” “I really don’t want to go to” whatever it is your child – you’re doing with your child. And if you ask them before out of ten, “How much do you want to do this?” And they say, “I’m a one,” or, “a two,” or, “a minus a million,” and then ask them afterwards, “How do you feel?” They might say, “Actually, I feel an eight out of ten,” and that can help give them the information that before you didn’t feel great, but afterwards you’re feeling a bit better, and it’s important to make that distinction. I’m not going to say it works all the time, but it can be a really useful tool to have.
Thank you for listening. I hope that’s been helpful.