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Dr Arnon Bentovim Good evening. I’m delighted to welcome you to this seminar of the ACEs Special Interest Group of ACAMH, and it’s a particular pleasure for me to welcome Laura, Laura Nott from the Faithfull Foundation, who’s going to be speaking about “Preventing Sexually Harmful Behaviour of Young People,” and introducing the Inform and Shore Initiative.
I have to say, I have a particular point that I want to make in terms of my own connection with the Faithfull Foundation. Baroness Lucy Faithfull, who founded the foundation, an ex-Head of Social Services, and then a Baroness, close to Margaret Thatcher, but with very different politics, and she was instrumental in helping found the Lucy Faithfull Foundation. I was invited to be on the board. Subsequently, I was Chair and I’m now Life President, for my sins, or otherwise.
But it’s a great pleasure to introduce Laura and the work of the foundation, because the foundation believes that child sexual abuse is preventable, not inevitable. Alongside specialist assessments, intervention and consultation, a number of prevention and intervention initiatives for children and young people are included, and you’ll learn about the Inform Young People’s Programmes for young people who get into trouble online, to explore the innovative Shore website and you’ll hear about the schools project.
Very – particularly important at this point in time, particularly considering that there may be mandatory reporting, which would mean that there will be many more children with – who’ve been sexually abused that come to note. Well, it’s interesting to note very recent research from David Finkelhor in New Hampshire that including questions about online sexual abuse had strikingly increased the prevalence in a North American study, which you will hear about when you get our next newsletter, which I’m in the process of compiling at the moment.
So, Laura trained and qualified as a Probation Officer. She started group work with young men affected by domestic abuse, helping them understand healthy relationships, was involved in training, consultacy – consultancy, training Teachers, Social Workers and Police Officers, safeguarding and family therapy. And after that early career, she’s now leading the Lucy Faithfull Foundation’s Multidisciplinary Schools Team, alongside Researchers from the University of Surrey, on a three-year action research project to support schools to respond and prevent harmful sexual behaviour.
The Faithfull Foundation prides itself on being an organisation that works to prevent the offending behaviour, to prevent sexual abuse, by actually working with young people with – and adult perpetrators, because that is a key way to preventing sexual abuse. And you’ll hear about the developments, which Laura has had a key role in.
Please use the Q&A, question and answer, link, and we’re hoping to have two or three breaks to take questions. So, please put your questions in the Q&A and if there’s any comments you want to make, please feel free to use the chat. And I’m pleased to see that people are introducing themselves and we have colleagues from the United States, from Canada, from Romania, from Holland. And I love and pleased to see the colleague from Wales, from the Aneurin Bevan Board, and we’re all, hopefully, going to really enjoy the film, Nye, which is now – at least we can see it on cinemas, if you can’t get to the National Theatre. So, thank you very much. So good to see so many of the presentations, which the ACAMH is now organising, and I’m delighted that we have this session for you, and I hope this is something that you’ll really enjoy and will get something from it in this important and key area of work. So, Laura, please.
Laura Nott Thank you so much, Arnon, for that really kind introduction and for the real privilege of being invited to come and speak with you this afternoon. So, thank you for having me. So, hopefully, you’re all aware why you’re here this evening and it’s to talk about the prevention of harmful sexual behaviour between young people. I haven’t gone into great detail about defining harmful sexual behaviour, because I’m guessing, with the roles and the organisations that people are coming from, that everybody will have that, kind of, fairly shared understanding. But I will just reference Professor Simon Hackett’s “Continuum of Harmful Sexual Behaviours,” looking at the sexual behaviour that ranges from normative and age-appropriate and expected, all the way through to violent and abusive. And giving that idea that all sexual behaviour falls somewhere upon that continuum, and those helpful categories that can help us to decide what kind of behaviour we’re seeing and what kind of response we need to co-ordinate in – to respond to that.
So, I’m going to introduce you today to the Inform Young People’s Programme, the Shore website and the project that I lead, the Everyone’s Safer School’s Project. But before I do that, Arnon gave a really lovely introduction to the Lucy Faithfull Foundation. This is Baroness Lucy Faithfull, who I’m quite envious of Arnon having known so well. I would have loved to have met her, because every day, she inspires me in my role and inspires the work of the foundation. So, a 32-year legacy with absolutely no plans to stop any time soon.
So, you can see some of our mission and our values onscreen there. I think probably the key thing to note about the Lucy Faithfull Foundation is the breadth of the work that we do and the complexity of the work that we do. But that real, kind of – if you took nothing else away, it would be that sense that we’re here to prevent harmful sexual behaviour and child sexual abuse. We want to do everything we can to stop that abuse from happening in the first place. There are some fantastic organisations, many of whom are represented here on the call this evening, who do an absolutely incredible job in picking up the pieces after sexual abuse happens, but we really want to get upstream from there and to stop it before it’s started. So, every service that we offer, every piece of research that we get involved in, every piece of individual work, is working towards that aim, to prevent child sexual abuse and harmful sexual behaviour.
So, I work as part of The Children and Young People’s Team, and I’ll just give you a brief overview of the services that we offer. We’ve got our specialist Assessments and Interventions Team, and so, they are practitioners working with young people who’ve displayed harmful sexual behaviour. And they’re conducting usually an AIM assessment, developing a bespoke intervention plan for them and carrying out that intervention, or putting support around the network around the child for other adults to carry out those interventions where appropriate. So, a big part of the work is around consultancy and supporting that child’s network, providing them with the resources and the training and the confidence, often, do that work around the child. So, we’re not just another adult parachuting in and out of the situation, but we’re strengthening the long-term and support around that young person.
We deliver an extensive programme of training and we’ve got some off-the-shelf training programmes that you can see on our Lucy Faithfull website, but we also design bespoke training interventions and packages. So, if you’ve got any training queries, please do address us with those and we’ll be delighted to see if we can support you. The Inform Young People’s Programme, the Shore website and the research and development projects, I’m going to go into in more depth. What unites all of them, Inform, Shore and the schools work, is the huge emphasis on prevention.
I was going to share a slide on the Public Health model of prevention that, no doubt, you’ll all be familiar with, that triangle model where we’ve got a large number of people who would receive a primary prevention, a universal, kind of, service. We’ve got a smaller number of people up the triangle who would refer – who would receive a targeted service and then, we’ve got the tertiary, the very specialist service for the – a smaller number of people. And I started to think about how perhaps we could consider Inform Young People as a tertiary provision, Shore as a secondary provision and the schools work as a primary prevention approach. But actually, all three crosscut all levels in ways that I hope I’ll go onto explain. So, I didn’t actually present you with that slide. But if we can be thinking through that Public Health model to prevention, as we’re talking, and I think it will become clear about how each service, each provision, slots in, in different ways across those three levels of prevention.
So, I’m going to start off with Inform Young People and talk you through this programme. I’ll then pause after the five or six slides that we’ve got here for any specific questions about the Inform Young People’s Programme. Then once we’ve answered those questions, we’ll move onto Shore and we’ll pause again so that any questions around the website can be asked and, hopefully, answered there. And then, for the final section, I’ll talk about my work in the schools and then, we can have a final question session relating to the schools, plus anything else that anybody wanted to revisit or come back to, regarding any of the services that we’ve talked about this afternoon.
So, what is Inform, the Young People’s Programme? Well, it is a short psycho-educative approach. It’s a programme with different sessions that can be tailored for each young person individually, and it was developed by Lucy Faithfull staff, specialist practitioners, who’ve all got multidisciplinary backgrounds in working with young people. It’s a toolkit approach, so that people can pick and mix from the different interventions that are needed, but it provides a framework to hang those interventions from. So, it gives some structure, but also, some flexibility.
It is a voluntary programme, so young people aren’t mandated to attend this, and it’s designed to help young people who’ve displayed harmful sexual or illegal behaviour online, and it’s – the whole aim is to help them to develop responsible behaviour online, to become healthy digital citizens and to be able to use the internet in a way that doesn’t harm them or anybody else. The Inform Young People’s Programme is also for family members, and it’s designed to assist them to support their young person. Often, parents will react with a lot of fear, a lot of shame, a lot of worry and so, part of our work is to work with the family and to provide that holistic support for them all to get past this incident that’s happened. Young people are referred into the Inform Young People’s Programme by the Police, by youth offending services, by schools and directly. People can self-refer or be referred in from their families.
However, most of our referrals come through our Stop it Now helpline, and I’ll just touch on here in case people haven’t heard of the Stop it Now helpline. That’s been running for over 20 years now. Primarily, it’s aimed at people who are worried about their own, or other people’s, sexual feelings, thoughts and behaviour towards children, and we receive over 1,000 calls a month from people with those worries. But professionals can call in, as well, and so, we get a lot of calls from professionals who are worried about a young person in their world who’s got into trouble online, and that’s how we pick up a lot of the referrals to the programme.
The programme consists of one initial meeting. We used to call those face-to-face, but a lot of them are, obviously, done online now since COVID. And then, it’s followed by up to ten hours of intervention, delivered in a series of sessions that are tailored to each young people’s needs. So, not every young person will do all ten sessions. They’ll all do the first, initial meeting, but then, it might be three, it might be five, it might be seven, and the sequence of those sessions will be determined by the young person’s presenting needs and the issues that they’re facing.
What the Inform Young People’s Programme isn’t, it’s not a long-term therapeutic programme. It is a brief, sort of, solution-focused intervention. It’s not a magic wand. We can’t guarantee that all the issues a young person brings will be fixed by the end of this intervention, and it’s not a replacement for parental guidance. So, we’re not saying that we can be the solution here. We’re wanting to work with families, parents and carers, schools, referring agencies, to be part of a wider solution.
It’s not a punishment and it absolutely shouldn’t be used as one. We want to encourage young people to reflect upon their behaviour and if they see it as punitive, they’re unlikely to get the full benefit of the programme. It’s not rigid or fixed. It, as we say, it can be tailored to make it very individual. It isn’t designed for young people who have complex needs and who require long-term therapeutic engagement and treatment. It is that short intervention, and it’s not designed for young people who have engaged in direct sexual contact, so any sort of contact, unwanted touching, sexual assault. It’s all about online behaviour.
Okay, so, the target audience, I’m just going to – sorry, I’m sorry if you can see me moving things on my screen there. Just wanting you to be able to see the words. The target audience are young people aged between 13-21, but we can work with young people aged up to 25 if they have diagnosed additional needs, such as autism or any learning difficulties. It’s for young people who’ve displayed technology assisted harmful sexual behaviour. As we mentioned, it’s about that online behaviour and it’s for all gender identities and it is accessed by all genders.
Here are some of the module, well, all of the module titles, to give you an introduc – an overview of the programme. That first introductory session is all about building rapport. So, our practitioners are really skilled in this about developing a good relationship with young people. They’re talking about possibly the most embarrassing, shameful and scary thing that has happened to them, getting into trouble online. And so, our practitioners need to be really sensitive, really non-judgmental and very caring, in order to build up that rapport with a young person from the offset.
We then look at a Good Life Model, or again, because it can be sequenced in different ways, we might not necessarily run it in this order, but this – these are the modules available. So, the Good Lives Model, and we’ve actually got – in case people haven’t heard of that, we’ve got an animation from the Shore website to play you later on that looks at the Good Life Model in more detail. We’ve got an educative model around the Criminal Justice System, so what young people can expect if they’ve got into trouble with the Police, how investigations work, how the criminal justice procedures go on from there, in Court, and Youth Justice Services after that. Got a module around getting into trouble online, how might young people get in trouble? What does the law say? What is legal, what is illegal?
The Internet and Me, so that’s looking about what the internet means to young people, how they use it, what needs are they trying to meet through their internet use? It’s Okay to Talk About Sex, so we’re looking at sex education there and giving very useful, accurate, up-to-date information to young people. A lot of young people get into trouble purely out of curiosity in trying to find information, or out of a natural, kind of, sexual curiosity. If a 14-year-old boy Googles the search term, “14-year-old girl nude,” which is a very natural driver to have, a very natural curiosity, unfortunately, because of the nature of the internet, the material he’s going to see is going to be illegal, of a child sexual abuse material nature, but that wasn’t necessarily what he was looking for. He was looking for, you know, natural curious – curiosity information about children and young people of his own age. But it’s what’s out there that is – you know, becomes very problematic.
Enthusiastic Consent, we focus on enthusiastic consent so that young people know that the absence of a no isn’t a yes. We need an affirmative yes and how young people can understand consent and look for that enthusiastic yes. We talk about pornography and the impact of pornography. Our message isn’t moralistic or judgmental, but we are clear that porn is a really poor educator and that the messages that young people get from pornography aren’t realistic, aren’t particularly helpful, and aren’t really likely to give them a good grounding into sex and relationships. In fact, if anything, it’s likely to skew their views about their own bodies, about other people’s bodies, about relationships and sex.
We talk about Coping with Problems, problem solving strategies, what kind of issues they might be facing and where they can get help. We talk about Happy Relationships that they might be engaging in currently or they might be looking forward to in the future. And then, the final session is about Positive Pathway Plans, so setting goals with young people and really ending on that hopeful, positive note, giving them hope for the future and ways that they can work towards those identified goals. Sorry, just clicking on. There we go.
So, a more recent aspect of the Inform Young People Programme has been training other professionals to be able to deliver the Young People’s Programme in their own setting. So, rather than it all being delivered by Lucy Faithfull practitioners, we’re training other practitioners, in their setting, to be able to deliver this. And the ultimate goal of that is to be able to extend the reach of the programme, because we’re limited in the numbers that we can work with each year. But by rolling it out into numerous different settings, we can, obviously, make sure that many more young people benefit from it.
To date, we’ve trained over 340 professionals from youth offending services, specialist HSB units, residential provision, Social Workers, NSPCC, Barnardo’s. A whole range there of other professionals, and if that is anything that anybody on this call is interested in finding out more, please do get in touch. The final slide of my talk has got my contact details on there and that will be shared with you, as well, and if I’m not the right person to ask, I can introduce you to the right person. And we also provide consultancy and refresher workshops to train professionals. So, it’s not just a one-hit wonder that you do the training and then, you’re left to go out there and deliver it. There is ongoing support, from Lucy Faithfull practitioners, and the opportunity to reconnect with other people who trained, as well, and to keep that, kind of, peer learning network going.
So, I’m going to pause there and see what questions we’ve got coming in around – if there… Dr Arnon Bentovim Well, so far, I think people have been just absorbing, Laura, but I… Laura Nott Hmmm hmm. Dr Arnon Bentovim My own comment is that I think what’s fascinating is the importance of the psycho-educational component, the information giving in this particular approach, because so often, across the field of child abuse and maltreatment, it’s the lack of knowledge and understanding that’s so striking. And that actually, giving people information is a key element in the whole of the approach, and I’m – I wonder whether you’d agree with that.
Laura Nott Oh, absolutely, Arnon. I think we – it’s quite heartbreaking at times to see the trouble that young people can get into, purely through a lack of information and a lack of understanding about the consequences. Things like image sharing, young people not understanding that though it is perfectly legal for them to have a consenting sexual relationship at the age of 16, they cannot share any images of their own body or anybody else’s under the age of 18. So, we’ve got those, sort of, potential grey areas of the law that young people are falling down into and getting into trouble there.
And, you know, just general understanding about ever-emerging issues, like artificial intelligence and the fact that generated images are as harmful and as illegal as actual images. So, we’ve got – there’s so much education constantly needed. Things like sextortion, where young people are being blackmailed using sexual images. Dr Arnon Bentovim Sextortation, yes. Laura Nott Yeah, and being blackmailed for money or to provide more images. So, there’s so much to do in raising awareness of these new, emerging issues. But then, just the age-old questions around consent and understanding consent in a meaningful way that changes behaviour. So, yeah, I think the education element of it is just so vital.
And one of the other things that we say about pornography is that the voice of pornography becomes louder when other adults are silent about the topic, and I think that applies to all of these issues, really. I feel we’ve got a real, kind of, moral duty to educate our young people in the messages, the healthy messages, that we want them to get. Because if we don’t, they will find this information elsewhere, but we’ve got no guarantee about the quality or the accuracy of that information then. So, I feel really passionate about trusted adults in a young person’s life being the provider of accurate and helpful sex education and information. And that’s, obviously, much wider than LFF. That’s the whole of society and people’s families and parents and carers.
Dr Arnon Bentovim Yes. There’s some interesting questions have come through, while we’ve been waiting. Laura Nott Great. Dr Arnon Bentovim Davina from the Davina Project asks about “helping young people process shame when they realise their behaviour may have harmed others.” And an interesting point, “Can Support Workers complete the training or is it just Social Workers, or it would fit well with being trained with AIM3, too?” And the – “What level of literacy is required?” And “correlation between RSE and levels of HSB.” So, those are interesting points. So, if you’d like to pick up any of those to… Laura Nott Yes.
Dr Arnon Bentovim …respond to… Laura Nott Certainly. Dr Arnon Bentovim …that would be great. Laura Nott I’ll pick up on the correlation between RSE and HSB later on in the school’s section, if that’s okay, because RSHE… Dr Arnon Bentovim Okay. Laura Nott …is a huge component of the work there. So, we’ll definitely address that in that section. Dr Arnon Bentovim Yes, okay, Nigel.
Laura Nott Guilt and shame, and that’s a really important topic, and I’m – I don’t think I feature it in the slides, but we’ve actually got an animation about guilt and shame, because it’s a huge part of helping young peop – it’s such a massive barrier to young people seeking support, and it’s also a huge part of helping them move past it. So, thank you for identifying that. Was it Davina who mentioned guilt and shame? And we talk about the difference between the two, about how guilt can motivate us to change our behaviour, but shame often isolates us and withdraw – makes us withdraw, and so, we try and work through that with young people.
Support Workers, absolutely relevant for Support Workers to think about this training and happy to take any queries from individuals who might want to look at that. And what was the third one, sorry, Arnon? Dr Arnon Bentovim Yes, I think that was the – I think the lit – level of literacy… Laura Nott Thank you. Dr Arnon Bentovim …required for individuals with a disa – learning disability. Laura Nott So, the nature of the modules is that they can all be adapted. The toolkit, as it stands, has got PowerPoint presentations, workbooks, worksheets and practitioner materials, but all of those can be adapted either by the practitioner or in combination with the adults who work around that young person. So, they’re the, kind of, standard level of literacy, I guess it – we’re, kind of, talking about mainstream Key Stage 4, I guess we’re probably talking. But absolutely, the materials can be adapted and they are regularly, because we work with a large proportion of young people with ASD, other communication disorders and different types of special educational needs, with great results. So, we know that the material can be used well with a whole range of need there.
Dr Arnon Bentovim Great. Laura Nott Is anything…? Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you very much. I think we might… Laura Nott Thank you. Dr Arnon Bentovim …move on now, but thank you… Laura Nott Okay. Dr Arnon Bentovim …for your questions. Please let them keep coming in. I just wanted to say that when you showed the image of Lucy Faithfull, I suddenly had a memory of Lucy’s way of operating. At 8 o’clock in the morning I would have a telephone call and she would be saying, “Arnon, it’s Lucy here,” and she would then have some important issue to have to confront or deal with, and there were plenty of those in the early days. So, just a memory of Lucy and the tremendous energy she brought to the whole organisation, which still courses through. So, please… Laura Nott Yeah.
Dr Arnon Bentovim …you were going to introduce Shore. Laura Nott Thank you, Arnon. Yeah, she sounds like an absolute force of nature. Well, I think the very fact that here we are, you know, sort of, 32 years later, still inspiring all of this work, it’s clear what kind of woman she was, isn’t it? So, yeah, Shore. I guess many of you will be really interested in this because this is one of our newest provisions. It’s – I feel really proud of it, even though I’ve had very, very little to do with it. So, I’m not taking any credit for this, but when I say I’m very proud, it’s because I am. I’m proud of my colleagues for being able to develop something like this.
So, it’s a website designed for teenagers with teenagers, if they are concerned about harm – their own or anybody else’s sexual behaviour. So, just as we described the Stop it Now helpline being more geared for adults who are worried about their own sexual feelings, thoughts and behaviour, we were getting calls to the helpline all the time from young people and we realised that there was a real need out there for resources directly for young people. Not just taking the adult approach and hoping that that would suffice, but really starting from the starting point of young people and seeing what they needed.
So, in trying to understand the need, I guess our big headline is that, and the most recent data coming in last year, was that in England and Wales, the Police data on child sexual abuse and exploitation crimes shows that there were around 107,000 offences in 2022. Harmful sexual behaviour between under 18-year-olds accounted for 52% of those offences. So, if we’re talking about over half of all CSAE crimes occurring between young people, I think that means that we’ve really got to look at how we deal with the people who are displaying this sort of behaviour and the people who are being harmed by this behaviour. And we need to think about it through the lens of young people, not through, necessarily, through adult services.
We saw, between 2021 and 2022, a 32% increase in contact to the Stop it Now helpline from young people aged under 18, who were worried about their own thoughts or behaviour. We saw an – ooh, 26% increase in the number of adults contacting us about their concerns about young people’s behaviour and a 41% increase in calls from education professionals. So, big, big rises here, and we can see, you know, a correlating rise in the recorded crimes. So, we knew that we’ve got this need, an unmet need, and we set about thinking how we could meet that need.
So, we conducted some research with young people, parents and professionals to find out what they’re worried about, where they currently access support, and what their views were on what we should develop. And I think what came through loud and clear is that young people are worried about how easy it is to access sexual content and the risks posed to them by other people. So, they know that they can get into trouble online, that they can access illegal material, but they also know that other people pose a risk to them. So, they’re very conscious that they could pose a risk and that other people could pose a risk to them online.
They spoke about a ‘new normal’, where engaging in sexual behaviour online seems like the expected thing to do. And, of course, I don’t need to outline how the pandemic played into that, with everybody’s relationships being taken online and they’re, kind of, still seeing the ripple effects from that. They’re taught about the barriers to accessing support, shame being a big one of those, Davina. Fears about being judged, a lack of anonymity, difficulty accessing resources, and just not knowing where to go to find safe and appropriate resources. Like we said earlier, you know, there’s so much information out there, but what – how much of it is high quality and accurate and helpful for young people?
Young people told us that they wanted a safe online space to learn and to find out about sex. They wanted just clear, matter of fact information that will help them feel more informed. So, we don’t need to sugarcoat information. We don’t need to patronise young people. We just need to give them the facts. They wanted to be able to access anonymous and confidential support and advice because, like we’ve touched upon, this might be the most scary or the most embarrassing situation in their lives, so that anonymity is really important to them. Basically, they won’t use services if they can’t trust them, and so, that confidential space is so important.
They want something trustworthy, official and academic, which is interesting, isn’t it, coming from young people’s voices? And they were saying how hard it is to find that good quality information, and so, they’re looking for that, they’re searching for that. They need something that’s interactive and easy to navigate and something that people know about that’s well advertised and easy to find. So, the aims of the Shore website is for people – young people to feel informed and educated about all aspects of sex and relationship, with the view, always, of preventing harm to themselves or others. We need that upfront, exact and clear information and we need that anonymous chat and email service. So, we took what young people asked for and we distilled it down into the skeleton of the service.
Developing the site was a really interesting process. The content was created by our LFF practitioners, reviewed by our Senior Leadership Team. Then we went through an editing process to make sure that all of the different modules and the different areas of the website were consistent. We asked for external peer review, so we went to the NSPCC, BeSafe, HSB Expert and a young adult volunteer, who all looked at it from their different lenses and provided scrutiny for us.
Then, we commissioned a Copy Editor to make sure that the voice coming through was consistent, it was clear, and that the tone was right, and then, we sought feedback from young people at every stage of their development to crea – to test all the creative ideas, the concept, the name, the colour palette. So, every aspect of the design, really. So, you can see it was very multi-layered and it took time, but it was really worth that investment in time to try and get it right, because we saw such a big need for it. I really like that quote there, “From simply looking at the website, it makes you feel safe,” and hopefully, you’ll see that for yourselves here. This is the, sort of, front page of Shore. The website address is on the bottom of most of the slides, so hopefully, you’ll be able to jot that down and go and have a visit. It’s well worth it just to navigate through some – there’s some really helpful library topics, the animations that we’re going to have a look at soon, and just great sources of alternative support, signposting. So, it’s well worth spending five minutes just flicking through and seeing what’s on the site.
[Video This is the homepage for…] Laura Nott Oh, sorry, you can find a lot more than five minutes’ worth, as well. So, we launched Shore for some beta testing, gathering further feedback and then, soft launched it on the 19th of June. So, that was just a small launch, really, with key stakeholders and young people who were already accessing our services, who were already known to us. And we wanted to test it out and to get feedback at that initial stage, before we then launched it more widely.
Hopefully, you’re getting the sense of how important young people’s participation has been throughout this whole process. We’ve sought feedback at every single stage. Feedback through surveys, focus groups, discussions, dedicated youth participation space, and that’s been so crucial and fundamental, really, to creating something that we know that young people will use. It’s never easy, though, because the – some of the challenges that I’m sure the people who try and use youth participation in their work, timing, making sure that we’re asking the – for the right feedback at the right time, sensitivity, because of the nature of the topics, it’s not something easy for young people to talk about and engage with. It’s not something that is easy for parents to give permission for young people to engage with. So, we’ve had to approach it very sensitively. And we really wanted to avoid tokenism, you know, just ticking a box that we’ve consulted with young people. We wanted to make sure that it was meaningful to them, beneficial to them, and that we could use what they tell us in a really impactful way.
So, the pilot evaluation, we’ve got data from the period between July and January 24. So, the next few slides that I run through are all in relation to that time period. Just checking the time, we’ve got. Yeah, about 25 minutes left, haven’t we? So, we’ve got a mixed method study using this RE-AIM framework to measure Shore’s Reach, Effectiveness, Adoption, Implementation and Maintenance. So, that acronym there to look at these different research questions. The Reach, are we reaching the right audience? How are young people finding Shore, and what concerns are they bringing to the chat and email service?
Effectiveness, that’s all about the impact. So, what difference is it making? How is it affecting their life, and what are the barriers to them accessing it? Adoption, are young people engaging with the site as we expect them to and as we intend them to? Are professionals interacting with the site? Are they finding it okay to use? Are they getting – able to find what they need? Implementation, how is it being implemented? Are people being able to access the services and feeling that they’re getting consistent, quality support? Do people appreciate the support that they’re receiving? Do they feel listened to? And finally, Maintenance, what capacity do we have over the long-term to continue delivering support? What are the gaps there and how do we keep these ever-changing issues up-to-date and make sure that young people are featured all the way through the journey?
So, the evaluation data that we got came from Google Analytics, looking at the number of visitors and the length of time that they spent on the site. Surveys with young with people, professionals and staff. We’ve got some quantitative analysis about the number of chat and email users, and then, we’ve got some qualitative content analysis of that, the nature of the issues that young people were presenting. We’ve got one-to-one interviews with young people and we’ve got website that – feedback that was collected and collated from the website and chat services directly.
So, what we found during this period, I’ve got data now from July to March. We’ve got 26,427 total users, bearing in mind that a lot of this was from the soft launch and we didn’t officially launch it until several months later. So, we were pleased with the numbers. There was a 61% engagement rate and over 88,000 views of the website. We’ve got users from 138 countries, majority from the UK, but a really broad spread there, and if you’re dialling in from another country today, hopefully, you can recognise callers and users from your country, too. We’ve got – well, we were contacted 182 times by 105 different individuals across the chat and email services, 115 chats from 50 chatters and 66 emails from 55 emailers. So, you can see that the chat service is used more often than the emails, but still, a good number of emails, so important to have that service there.
And what they – the presenting issues that they were contacting us about, you can see that the majority were from under 18-year-olds who had committed an internet in – offence and had got into trouble for that and were looking for some support. However, sizeable proportions of the contactors, as well, were just worried about their own thoughts, or over 18s who were concerned about their own behaviour, as well. You can see that, sort of, mint green and the yellow colours being the largest chunks. I won’t run through all of those, but you’ll be able to access them afterwards. But you can see there’s a wide range there of concerns and presenting issues.
Gender breakdown. More than half of the callers presented and identified as male, just over a third as female, but then, you know, quite a proportion there of transgender young people. And so, we’re glad that the services are viewed as inclusive and that people from all genders can use them. Good spread of age groups there that you can see, with the biggest age groups being 17 and 18-year-olds. And then, the awareness of – is their behaviour known?
Well, to another adult, you can see, actually, the majority of people who contact us, 72%, nearly three quarters, their behaviour isn’t known to any adult. And we take that as really strong evidence of the prevention element of what we’re doing that actually, these young people haven’t come to the attention of services yet. So, we’ve got this incredible opportunity to intervene and to provide support before a young person’s caught up in the Criminal Justice System or before they have caused harm to anyone or themselves.
Some feedback from young people here. I won’t read them all out word-for-word, but hopefully, you’ll get a chance to get the, kind of, gist of what young people are saying there. “Thanks a ton. Don’t usually share my thoughts, but I feel more relaxed.” “I feel better when I have suggestions.” “Helpful and supportive chat.” “Almost like a weight has been lifted.” So, really positive and meaningful feedback from young people, which we’re always just delighted to see. The themes and the content analysis, and, again, I’ll just, sort of, leave it up so that you can have a look at it, but really fascinating data, I think. 227 instances of young people contacting us about their behaviour. 76 contacts about the reasons of their own behaviour. 12 contacts around triggers. 469 contacts about their feelings about themselves, again, coming back to shame, and we were able to provide advice a total of 954 times. And you can see what kind of professional support was available, advice or coping mechanisms, and advice to help people understand their thoughts and behaviour.
When we’ve speak – spoken to professionals in surveys, these are the – this is the, kind of, feedback we’re getting. 25% of respondents had recommended the website more than six times already. Almost a third have recommended it to a young person, and some lovely quotes there. “The information’s extremely relevant.” “I would use it, covers a range of topics.” So, we’re pleased with the feedback that we’re getting from professionals, but we always welcome more. So, if as a result of looking on the website this afternoon, you’ve got anything that you’d like to contact us about, then we would love to hear from you.
Animations, so we’ve got some already created and we’re creating a whole series of new animations, as well. We’ve got something about “Understanding the Good Lives Model,” which I’m going to play for you, “Managing Difficult Emotions,” “What to do if you’ve got into trouble with the Police,” and “Understanding Guilt and Shame.” So, I’ll just play it for you now. It’s very short, just over a minute, the animation, so you get a sense of the graphic design and the, kind of, tone and voice that young people are hearing, for yourselves. Here we go.
[Video [Music] How to build a good life. People from all over the world tend to want similar things to feel happy and satisfied. Sometimes, if we don’t find healthy ways to feel good, we might use unhelpful or even sexually harmful behaviours to meet our needs. The Good Lives Model tells us that everyone has needs in five key areas. To feel good and lead a happy life, we have to meet these needs in a positive way. Being healthy and safe, physically and emotionally, for example, sleeping well, taking time to relax and respecting your boundaries, having fun and achieving by doing things you enjoy and finding things you’re good at. Being your own person, through expressing your opinions and making good choices. Having a purpose and making a difference means having hope for your future and doing kind things for others. And finally, having people in your life who love, support and help you.] Laura Nott So, I hope that gives you a flavour of the animations and what the – the, kind of, messages that young people are receiving. We’ve had really lovely feedback about the animations from young people and professionals alike, actually, particularly about the Good Lives Model. Professionals are saying how difficult it can be to explain and to put across quickly for young people. So, we know that this is getting a lot of clicks and a lot of shares, so we’re really pleased about that.
[Video How to build a…] Laura Nott Whoops. Right, so, what’s next for Shore? Well, we really want to increase the delivery of the chat service. So, we want to promote that this chat service is available for young people to access anonymously and confidentially, because we find that in that interactive conversation, a young person is much more likely to open up and to talk about their feelings. When it’s just an email, they’ll obviously talk about the presenting concern, but then, there can be a delay in between and it’s much more stilted. Whereas that instant chat, it’s much more like a face-to-face situation, really, and young people seem to really like that method of communicating, because they’ve got that anonymity, but they’ve also got the responsiveness of a trained professional at the end of the chat, giving them support and giving them advice.
We want to increase the interactivity of the site so that there’s a lot more input from young people and that there’s just space for people to interact with that and leave comments and to put their own stories. We’re going to be responding to all the learning that we’re gathering through the evaluation and then, funding dependent, we’re looking at commissioning a full external evaluation next year that will be looking at process, impact, and the outcomes that have been achieved.
So, I’ll pause there to see if there’s any specific questions about Shore, before I move on to talk about the schools work. Dr Arnon Bentovim Laura, really fascinating and I’m sure, like myself and many, have been really excited to hear how this has gone. Can I just ask one point myself, which is if a pers – I mean, and this used to come up in Childline, and I was involved in the early days of thinking, about managing that and Stop it Now and so on, is – what about a facility if somebody really seems at risk or in danger, or there is a crisis situation, how – what’s the way of managing that that you’ve been thinking about?
Laura Nott Yeah, it’s – I mean, it always thread through all of the thought of the development of the confidential services, because we know that confidentiality and anonymity is vital to young people to encourage them to use the service. But we also know that if there’s a safeguarding concern, that anonymity can be very, very difficult to manage. So, we – if we believe that a young person is in immediate danger or is posing a significant risk to others, we might sometimes ask for identifying information to be able to support them, or we might ask them to go and speak to specific trusted adults in their lives.
We don’t break their confidentiality or their anonymity by using any kind of tracking services or identifying their – the internet data that we’ve got. We don’t do that. It is a confidential and anonymous service. So, it’s all about building that rapport, really, with a young person, as we’re chatting or emailing with them, and encouraging them to seek the right support or to give us the information so that we can seek that support on their behalf. Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you, and another question from Shanti Inglebright, “What’s the ethnicity breakdown of the young people accessing the site?” and whether there are “some issues in – across cultures that’s come up?” And perhaps linked to that is whether there is an idea about translating the material and making this available in other languages, because certainly, our own experience is that a lot of the material translates very well… Laura Nott Hmmm.
Dr Arnon Bentovim …as long as one’s sensitive in managing differences. But that – and those issues have come up. Laura Nott Well, in regard to the translation and the accessibility in different languages, there is built into the site functionality for – oh, now, I’m sorry if I get this wrong, because I didn’t design the site, but I believe that it’s up to about 80 languages that the site – there’s a button on the site that enables the content to be translated. I will check that, and I will come back to you. I’ll have to check, as well, the question about the ethnicity breakdown. I’m not sure, myself, about the answer to that one, but what I will do to the asker of that question, is make sure that I pass the information onto Arnon and Ellie before these slides are circulated, so that we can address that question.
I sense that we will have tried our best to collate that information because we have constant conversations about diversity and inclusion of all of our services and how we can optimise that and how we can monitor that. So, I know that something will have gone on behind the scenes to look at that, but I’m sorry, I don’t have that data at the minute. But I will get it to you, Arnon, to answer that question. Dr Arnon Bentovim Yes, and Gemma Byers has said, “There is a button for languages,” so further information about that.
Laura Nott Excellent. Dr Arnon Bentovim The other question, which is, “Is” – an interesting question from Sharon Jackson, who asks whether you can “work with siblings together or independently?” And also, the lower is – the “lower age limit,” and again, “children and young people with disability” and how that works out? Laura Nott So, the site is aimed at older teenagers because of the nature of the content. But because it is accessible to anybody, we know that younger people will be accessing it, as well. The standard of – the level of literacy needed to access the site, we’ve tried really hard to make it very, very clear, plain English and to make it as accessible as possible for different literacy levels and for different age groups.
What a lot of professionals tend to do, when – certainly when I signpost to Shore, say if I’ve got a helpline call from a school and they’re looking for material that they can use, I signpost to Shore. So, I’ll send the Teacher or the Support Worker the links to the pages and then, they will sit with the young person and go through it with them. And we know that that’s been used well for Support Workers or for parents and carers to go through this with the young person. Obviously, the site’s designed so that young people can come to the site by themselves, get the information that they need privately and anonymously. But also, we know that it can be used in a guided way with trusted adults, as well. So, I guess that is something that we might be able to recommend if you’ve got a young person with literacy needs or any special educational needs, there.
There was another… Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you. Laura Nott …question. Dr Arnon Bentovim And I think that’s really very helpful, and I think it’s really fascinating that young people are beginning to link up and to be link – beginning to connect. Because in… Laura Nott Hmmm hmm. Dr Arnon Bentovim …a sense, as there’s such a striking increase in concerns about online behaviour, both the victim and there’s also, perpetrating, to be able to have a response which spans that is so important.
Laura Nott Hmmm. Dr Arnon Bentovim The other point that came up is, “Would individuals,” some of the individuals who are actually watching – participating today, would they “be able to access the range of animations that you’ve described?” ‘cause they really are excellent. Laura Nott The animations are all – the ones that are developed are published on the website. There’ll be more coming out, you know, on a fairly regular basis, over the coming months, because we have secured some more funding for animations. So, anything that’s on the website, obviously, please feel free to use and just watch that space for more coming down the pipeline in the near future.
Dr Arnon Bentovim So very useful, indeed. Well, thank you very much. There were one or two questions from the earlier – from the Inform, which we’ll… Laura Nott Hmmm. Dr Arnon Bentovim …discuss at the end, but I think – and the – yeah. “It’s great to see Irish one of the languages listed, as this is often forgotten about.” So, Shanti was saying there were “18 languages, including English.” So, that’s – the languages issues is beginning to get clearer. But… Laura Nott Well, thank you for clarifying that. Sorry, I was a bit ambig – I’ve obviously misheard ‘18’ as 80, but thank you for clarifying that. ‘18’, yeah, and that’s great.
Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you. So, would you like to present the last section of your presentation? And thank you very much from – for all of us for really fascinating and such important information you’re sharing. Laura Nott Oh, it’s a pleasure, Arnon. Just checking in on time. Initially, we were going to finish the presentation at six to allow – or five past six, to allow the… Dr Arnon Bentovim I think… Laura Nott …following session to be... Dr Arnon Bentovim And my suggestion would be as we’ve had discussions, I would like to suggest that you give yourse – you give this part, and that we have ten/15 minutes at the end. So… Laura Nott Okay, lovely.
Dr Arnon Bentovim …I think it’s so important that you present the work in schools, because so many people will be interested in that because it’s such an important development. Laura Nott Great, thank you for that, and I apologise for any, sort of, lack of clarity about the Inform Young People and the Shore… Dr Arnon Bentovim Not at all. Laura Nott …services. I – in – I work very closely with my colleagues and so – and they speak about it so eloquently, but they would’ve been able to have spoken about it more confidently than I can. But hopefully, now, I can move onto the work that I am confident about. If there are any questions remaining about Shore or Inform, the final slide, my email address is on there, please do let me know and I’ll contact my colleagues, Tracy and Rachel, and get the proper information for you.
So, onto the schools work. Everyone’s Safer is the name of the project and it is all about harmful sexual behaviour in schools. So, harmful sexual behaviour between young people and with the desire to support effective leadership responses for school staff. The need for the research arose when we saw a real increase in calls to the helpline, and I think it was a moment in time where lots of things had come together. Most of you have probably heard of the Everyone’s Invited website. So, a young woman in 2020, Soma Sara, posted on Instagram about her experiences of sexual harassment at school and college. And a little bit like the #MeToo movement, this post went viral, and she got hundreds and thousands of responses from young people talking about their own experiences of sexual violence in schools and colleges. So, she set up the Everyone’s Invited website to record those testimonials of abuse, recognising that, you know, these were very significant stories and that they needed to be housed somewhere and not just disappear off into the ether.
And I think in doing that, it really shone a spotlight on the issue of harmful sexual behaviour in schools and flagged to multi departments across the government that they needed to act on this and look at the prevalence and the scale. So, the Ofsted Rapid Review took place in 2021 and their report was published in June 21, which concluded, essentially, that acts of harmful sexual behaviour in schools are sadly, so commonplace that most young people don’t report them. And sadly, that young people see this as a normal part of growing up and something that is just to be put up with in schools. And of course, with our mission to prevent child sexual abuse and harmful sexual behaviour, we wanted to stand against that and to say, “You don’t have to put up with this. This isn’t just a part of growing up that you have to tolerate, and we want to show you what support is out there.” Coupled with this, we’d also got findings from our project in Scotland, the ROSA Project, Risk of Sexual Abuse, who’ve been working for three years in schools, and they’ve got findings, as well. So, we’ve brought all of this learning together, from Everyone’s Invited, from the Ofsted Rapid Review findings and from our Scottish learning, and put it together into a project design.
We, obviously, have many years of working in this space, so we’ve got expertise and we’ve got resources, but we really recognised that there was a scarcity of research and quite a sparse evidence base about what really works. And all of these changes had led to quite a focus on harmful sexual behaviour in the safeguarding guidance, “Keeping Children Safe in Education.” There were big changes in September 21 and further changes in September 22, when the departmental advice around harmful sexual behaviour was actually brought into the statutory guidance and became something that schools must legally do. And so, we got this really helpful and appropriate spotlight on the issue, but not very much evidence or training or resource or support to enable schools to meet this – these new responsibilities, or these highlighted responsibilities, with confidence.
So, we put together a project design, a three-year action research project with three main aims. To res – help schools to respond. So, to support everyone involved when a harmful sexual behaviour incident occurs, and to do that really well so that a sense of safety is restored in the school community. To learn from the schools that we’re working with in an iterative approach, so that every school that we learn from, their – those findings can be shared with other schools, and we’re building upon the learning consistently, so that every school benefits from every other school that we’re working with.
And that we gather together all of that really valuable and precious learning and we present those findings in order to influence education and government strategy. Things like updates to Keeping Children Safe in Education, Ofsted inspection frameworks, different legislation and policy. We want the learning to be shared really, really widely. We’ve got some great stakeholder networks and I’ll tell you a bit more about those, but that’s one of our main aims, is to effect change, to use this learning to make things better in schools, and ultimately, to prevent harmful sexual behaviour, so that young people feel safer. That they feel okay to turn up in school, knowing that this behaviour is less likely to happen.
So, the project design is fascinating, I think. We work with ten secondary schools each year, so 30 in total, and they’re the in-depth research sites. So, these are schools that we work with for a calendar year, January to December, and we go in and we use baseline measures to look at what issues are they facing? How confident do they feel? What levels of awareness of HSB have their students got? And we do that pre and post-intervention, so that we can look at any differences that occur before and after our visits.
We then conduct some initial assessments with staff and students to think about the presenting issues, and there are some similarities that came out in our year one findings, but there’s also some really unique things that are very specific to each setting. And I’ll give you an example of some of those as we go along. We use those presenting issues, then, to develop very tailored and bespoke engagement plans, looking at what interventions might address those issues that have been identified.
Basically, it’s a big experiment to test out, does this approach work? What impact does it have? What difference does it make? And we’re partnering with the University of Surrey, who are conducting an independent evaluation of all the work. And so, in partnership with the school, we develop the action plan. Then me and different partners deliver the interventions and then, our Evaluator looks at all of the feedback from that and is able to identify then, what’s working, what’s not working, and areas of promising practice.
We collaborate with partner organisations. So, it’s not just me and LFF colleagues delivering the interventions in schools. As an example, we’ve worked with the University of Worcester, who had got a well-established Bystander Education Programme for campus students, and we were really fortunate to work with Dr Gillian Harrop, who developed that programme, and she adapted it for use in secondary schools. And we delivered it to sixth form students, who then cascaded that learning down the school, to the different younger year groups, and we’ve got some feedback about that, which I’ll talk about later.
In addition to the ten schools that we work with in-depth every year, we’ve also, obviously, been very aware that many more schools than ten each year could benefit from additional support. So, we’ve set up some support mechanisms for schools who aren’t one of those ten research sites, and we do that primarily through the Stop it Now helpline. We’ve established some callback slots for schools. So, an education professional can call the Stop it Now helpline, nine ‘til nine Monday to Thursday, nine ‘til five on a Friday, and they can talk to an Advisor, and it might well be that that Advisor can resolve their query there and then. But if not, they can book a special callback with myself or a schools practitioner, and we can spend an hour wi – up to an hour with them.
If we feel like the issues are more complex, maybe there’s some individual safety planning work that needs to be done for a student, or perhaps there’s more of a whole school approach, we can offer up to three hours’ free consultancy. And I just love this aspect of the work and I’m really grateful to our funders, who are the KPMG Foundation, who support this, because it means that schools, at the point of need, can phone up and get pretty much instant support at no cost. And that’s really so valuable to them because we know what budgets are like and so, it’s a real pleasure to be able to provide that service, but also, the insights that we gain from that work adds to what we’re learning from the ten schools. And it means that we’re working with about 100 schools per year, which gives us a really good, broad overview of issues from across the country and from lots of different types of educational settings, as well.
What I haven’t mentioned, actually, is that the schools that we recruit, the ten per year, we work really hard to make sure they’re a very diverse range of schools. So, we look at the type of educational setting. We work with mainstream schools, with independent schools, special schools, PRUs, faith schools, girls’ schools, boys’ schools. We’re trying to get the whole range of setting, with the view that any school, then, can recognise themselves in our findings and that the learning that we’ve got is as generalisable and as applicable to as many people as possible.
We are in the process, continually, of creating new resources for staff, parents and students, and I’ll show you some of those resources later on. And as we mentioned, we’ve got these great stakeholder networks and relationships that we’ve been building throughout the life of the project to help us find out what they’re – find what they’re experiencing in their organisations, but also, to come together to amplify messages and to share what we’re learning.
Everything that we feed back is confidential and anonymous for the school. So, we report – we give each school a code and we report back using those codes, rather than school names or any individual students or members of staff. But schools know that in taking part in this research, what they tell us is being fed back confidentially to key partners in the Home Office, to the Department for Education, and that what they share is going somewhere and is being heard. And I think that’s a really key element for schools to want to be involved, because they feel that not only do they get their chance to have their say, but also, they’re receiving information from those key stakeholders, as well, that we can share in schools.
So, what schools started to tell us, from a staff perspective in year one, I’ve tried to summarise here. The cross-cutting themes and issues that we were recognising in every school that we work with, and we have in year two and year three, as well, is this, kind of, toxic trio, that term that you’ll be familiar with in – used in a different way in safeguarding. But what we were finding to be the toxic trio of issues in schools were understanding consent and teaching it in a meaningful way that actually makes a difference in the park, after dark, when alcohol’s been consumed. Because schools were telling us that they are delivering consistent messaging through their RSE curriculums, but the impact is really inconsistent. And then, you know, after a party at the weekend, it’ll be the School Nurse or the DSL or the Mentors who are picking up the pieces and having conversations about STIs and unwanted pregnancy and perhaps non-consensual sexual activity. So, understanding consent is really key to safeguarding those young people in and out of school.
Image sharing, we’ve touched upon already, but that just seems to be prevalent in every single school and causing lots and lots of different problems and concerns. The way that young people conceptualise the issue is very different from the way we, as adults, do. And I think we’ve got this, kind of, ongoing dialogue, similar to drugs education, I think, in the, sort of, 80s and 90s, where there was a “Just Say No” kids approach to drugs education that changed to more of a harm minimisation route when we realised that the Just Say No approach wasn’t really working. And I think we’re reaching a similar sort of stage about image sharing for young people.
Knowing that it’s illegal isn’t necessarily a deterrent for a lot of young people, because they persist in doing it. So, we’re trying to understand what it means for them, what it represents in terms of their relationships, why they’re doing it, so that we can get messaging that actually makes a difference. And it isn’t just about getting caught, but it is about the wider impact of that kind of behaviour, that that can have on people’s emotional wellbeing, on their safety, as well as the legal consequences. And pornography, we’ve already talked about, you know, it being a poor educator, but the impact of pornography in schools is huge, really. From the sexualised language that’s being used on a daily basis and that, kind of, very explicit nature of insults and just conversations that are being overheard, to, on the very much more extreme end, needing – schools needing specialist Continence Nurses to come in because students have been injured trying to re-enact things that they’ve seen in pornography.
12-year-old girls going to their Form Tutor, kind of, excited, but, kind of, confused that they’ve had their first kiss, which should be a lovely experience, but asking them, “Is it normal that he choked me, Miss?” because of what has been seen in pornography and the impact that that’s having. Boys thinking that that’s what girls like. Girls thinking that that’s what boys expect and all of the things that come from that. Teachers are also telling us that systems feel broken at times, that they feel quite isolated in managing harmful sexual behaviour. They know that they’re not the only agency dealing with this. They know that Police, Social Services, CAMHS services, are all playing their part in it, but communication can be difficult. Particularly if there’s an ongoing Police investigation, that information can’t always be shared, but the school is left holding those young people, both those who’ve harmed and those who’ve been harmed, sometimes in the same classroom, but often in the same school environment. And not having all the information that they feel that they could do, really, to manage that situation as safely as possible.
Thresholds, we know for statutory services, are very high, more so in some parts of the country and varying across the country. Voluntary sector services are patchy across the country. Funding can be inconsistent. So, schools are often left feeling like they are the constant in the young person’s life and therefore, they are the people picking up the pieces. We’ve talked a bit, and it’s come through in your questions about concerns for students with additional needs, special educational needs and disabilities. We see a large over-representation in the numbers, both of students who are harmed – who are causing harm and students who are being harmed, of students with additional needs.
And there’s a lot of concern from staff about avoiding criminalising these young people, but also making sure that their behaviour is dealt with appropriately and safely. Knowing that additional needs can’t be used to excuse behaviour, but they might well contribute to the context in which harmful sexual behaviour occurs. We know, as adults, how difficult it is to negotiate sex and relationships and flirting, and if you’ve got a communication disorder on top of that and you find it difficult to read body language and social cues, how many more problems could arise, you know? So, trying to support students with additional needs.
And on a more positive note, I think all the staff that I’ve spoken to in every school have all identified the power of relationships and sex education, seeing it as the key vehicle, not just for the prevention of sexual harm, but a lot of society’s issues, as well. But that, in itself, is problematic in that there is so much to be crammed into the RSE curriculum, all of it equally valuable and equally important, but there are only so many hours in the day and there is only so much space in the curriculum, and so, how can schools choose what is really meaningful and needed by their students?
Staff have been really frank in talking about their levels of confidence and skill in delivering RSHE. I’ve had numerous Teachers say to me, “I care about this, I want to be good at this, but I’m a Maths Teacher. Nobody has taught me or trained me or provided me with the resources I need to talk about condoms with children, to talk about domestic abuse.” And then, you’ve got the fact that, you know, one in four women experience domestic abuse, one in six men. So, we’re asking a wide range of Teachers to teach on topics that they might, personally, have been affected by in their own lives, without the support and the provision of all the resources that they need. And again, they’re saying, “We’re giving consistent messages in RSHE, but it’s having a very inconsistent impact.” So, schools are, basically, crying out for more help, more support, more training, more resources, and more supervision around relationships, sex, and health education.
Students, fascinating in what they’re telling us. So, in the focus groups that we delivered in year one, they were talking about relationships, sex and health education, how much they value it, but very openly and honestly saying, “The value depends on the Teacher.” So, there are some lessons that they get lots from and there are some lessons where they’re shutdown and they feel judged and they feel like the Teacher is just downloading information from the front and they’re expected to just suck it up like sponges and then, go and squeeze it out in their real life. But we know it doesn’t work like that.
They’re asking for skills, not rules. So, they’re asking for much more of a skills-based curriculum, where they’re able to practice some of these skills in risk assessment, decision-making, perspective taking, negotiation, all of these high-level skills that there isn’t really much opportunity to practice. And they’re asking us to talk with them, not at them, so a conversational approach, a much more active discussion-based RSHE curriculum. I’ve been really moved by the passion of students. You know, when they say, “We care about this issue,” they really mean it. They care about this issue.
They see the social justice elements of this. They care about gender equality, and they say, you know, “Don’t just see us as the problem. Please help us be part of the solution,” particularly boys. They’re very aware, in the violence against women and girls agenda, that the statistics are depressing. They see how much violence is perpetrated against women and girls by boys and men, but they, obviously, know that they don’t want to be part of that. They’re asking, “How can we be allies? How can we help?” And so, they’re, kind of, saying, “How can we get onboard with this?” And we’ve got a duty, then, to give tho – them that information and those skills.
And students are also telling us that reporting mechanisms really matter. They won’t use them if they don’t trust them. So, it comes back to the Shore website, I guess, and the anonymity and the confidentiality of the service. Students won’t report harmful sexual behaviour if they believe that they, or other people, are going to get into trouble. There’s a huge issue in every school that I’ve been in about snitch/antisnitch culture. So, this idea about grassing, about telling on each other, it’s a huge pressure on students and it’s a massive – I would say the biggest barrier to students reporting harmful sexual behaviour. And so, we’ve got to think about creative ways that we can do that.
Obviously, schools are saying, “We can’t allow this to be reported anonymously, because how can we help those involved if we don’t know who they are?” And they’ve got their safeguarding duties. But we’re thinking through creative ways where young people can feel that they can report these things, to a trusted adult of their choice in a private, anonymous setting and then, the safeguarding actions can be taken then, in conversation with them. Some areas of promising practice that we identified in year one, I’m going to focus on three. Just checking on the time. I’ll go a bit quicker. Protective behaviours, really, really practical approach to personal safety. If you’ve not come across it before, if you Google “protective behaviours terminology,” you’ll see there’s an approach that was developed in the 70s in America. It was used for child abuse prevention, but it can be applied to many, many different issues. And it’s got two underlying concepts around the unwritten rules of society, norms, socialisation, and the links between feelings, thoughts and behaviours. So, the, kind of, CBT element.
There are two main themes and there are seven strategies. So, it’s all about helping young people recognise when they don’t feel safe, tap into those early warning signs that their body gives them, and know what to do when they’re feeling unsafe. And it’s all about personal support networks. It’s not about expecting young people to be responsible for preventing their own abuse, but it is about giving them skills that their voice matters, that their ‘no’ matters and that they have people around them who can help them when they’re feeling unsafe.
Some feedback there. We’ve worked with schools, we’ve delivered whole school training to Teachers on the protective behaviours process, so that they can apply it in different ways across the curriculum and across the school day with their students. Oh, and I really like this model of training whole schools, because it gives them a shared language, a shared approach and you can see the feedback was overwhelmingly positive. We’ve gone on to train many more than 77 Teachers, but we’ve not got all the data back yet from year two. But 100% of the participants in year one said that they’d recommend their course to colleagues and the feedback that was really positive. Teachers getting actual practical strategies that are new, that they can use in their day-to-day lives in school.
Second area of promising practice is around active and participatory RSHE. This resource here, that I’ve pictured, is written by our research partner, Dr Emily Setty. She’s published this guidance for schools that can be found online and it’s all about transforming school cultures, preventing harmful sexual behaviour through relationships and sex education. It’s about 30-odd pages. There’s loads of suggestions for Teacher training and development, and it’s a really helpful document that I would recommend you have a look through if you get a chance.
Student focus groups in two different schools in year one talked about the issue of RSHE and what students needed, and they were really clear there. I’ve just picked them out in that salmon colour. They want to be able to voice their opinion. They don’t want to be shutdown. They want to understand what they can do for themselves. They need more of a conversation and a chance to reflect on the issues that they’re being taught about, so that they can really wrestle with it and grapple with it. And it sinks down from their head into, you know, their personal values and their own motivation.
And then finally, promising practice was around the Bystander Education Programme that I mentioned through the University of Worcester. We delivered that in one school to 82 Year 12 students, eight – nearly 86% of them said that they would be more likely to spot problematic behaviour around relationship abuse and sexual harassment after they’d attended the one-day workshop. And nearly 95% of them thought that they would be no more likely to take some action if they saw any sexual harassment or relationship abuse happening. So, really encouraging statistics there.
27 of them responded to a, kind of, free text question about what they’ve learned about being an active bystander, and you can see that they got it, they grasped it. They understood it’s about recognising issues, being aware, intervening, caring, doing something. So, we were pleased about the quality of what they’ve learnt there. Some of the outputs of year one were that we devised this one-stop, we hope, website for schools, webpage for schools. You get to it by clicking on that left-hand menu there, the “Help for Schools” in black. You click on that and it takes you to our schools webpage. On it, we’ve got an outline of all the services that we can provide through LFF. We’ve got some brand-new safety planning templates that we’ve devised in partnership with NSPCC and we’ve got some useful resources, things like the Keeping Children Safe in Education guidance.
This is an example of some of the secondary prevention methods that we’ve looked at, the safety planning for when a young person’s got into trouble, but steps that we can identify to keep everyone safer and hopefully, prevent it from happening again. And on that tertiary level, we’ve developed some reflective resources for schools to use with students, after there’s been an incident of harmful sexual behaviour, to help them reflect on what’s happened and crucially, prevent it from happening again. Year two findings, quite different from year one. This was all about staff, really. We were looking at the role of the DSL, in particular, and thinking about how can we better safeguard the safeguarders? How can we equip them to do their jobs in the very best way? Because many of them are holding what is, essentially, a social work caseload, without the three-year Social Worker training, without the supervision and the CPD. And without the support to manage the very real emotional impact of safeguarding these incidents. But what’s also come out in year two is ways to work more creatively with parents, so that school and parents are on the same page, and it’s all one team in addressing these issues with young people.
We’ve gathered a lot of learning from the ad hoc support, through the 70-odd – 70-100 schools we’ve supported in year one and year two, developing the safety planning tool, the whole school approach and the multi-agency working, and we’ve looked at the content of RSHE. So, I know there was a question earlier about the correlation between harmful sexual behaviour and RSHE content. I’m not sure about what research exists that actually maps that, but certainly, the evidence that we’re being presented with in schools is that schools can see the huge potential for prevention through the RSHE curriculum. And so, we really want to work with them to harness that power to prevent harmful sexual behaviour.
So, that’s the end of my presentation. So, that gives us a few minutes for Arnon to conclude and any final questions. Oh, you’re on mute, Arnon. Oh, Arnon, you’re just on mute. Can you – I don’t know if you can hear me. Can you…? Dr Arnon Bentovim Oh, thank you. I was going to say the information you’ve put up, contacting you, because several people said, “We have schools we’d love to connect with. So, thank you very much for giving us this information.” An important issue which did come up is, do you have, at the moment, any information about the work of Inform or the other – or the Shore, about actually preventing harm? In other words, do you have some information from the Inform about reoffending, following that, and perhaps reduction of reoffending at that level of information?
Laura Nott Oh, that’s a really good question and I’m sorry it’s not one that I can answer confidently here, but I can certainly ask Tracy, and along with the ethnicity. I’m just dotting them down here. So, I’m going to look for ethnicity breakdown, for Shore, and I’m going to look for any, sort of, data that we have about reoffending rates for Inform YP. It’s an age-old problem, isn’t it, about how you measure something that hasn’t happened? It’s really, really difficult and a very difficult one to prove what we’ve prevented. But certainly, we do have qualitative data from talking to young people and the adults around them. So, I’ll see what I can send onto you, Arnon, to… Dr Arnon Bentovim Okay.
Laura Nott …answer that. Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you, and to share. And Lauren Eaton asked, “Very interesting and important issue. Any exploration in the future about preventing this is in primary schools, because so often, issues may well start at a younger age?” Laura Nott Absolutely. I’m sorry, I didn’t touch on that through the ad hoc support. The ten research sites that we work with in-depth each year are secondary schools and that’s to do with the data that we’ve got around the peak onset of HSBB in, sort of, 13/14-years-old. But we are seeing increasing contacts from primary schools with concerns about younger children. And I would say, actually, of those 70-100 schools that we’ve worked with in years one and two, the majority of them have been with primary schools, from primary schools, and so, we are doing work currently in primary schools. We’re looking a lot about transition work in year five and year six, so, how can we work with primaries in the move up to secondaries? But also, we’re just getting calls concerned about five-year-olds, seven-year-olds, nine-year-olds, about the harmful sexual behaviour that they’re displaying.
So, we have been doing some individual safety planning work with primary schools around specific students, but also, looking more at that whole school approach, as well, about what content can be taught in an age-appropriate way, at what stage, and how schools can look at that. We’ve done some work with parents of primary schoolchildren. You’ve got that dilemma, haven’t you, with primary schoolchildren, that they’re at different stages of development? And so, you don’t want to go in with too much information that some people have never heard of, and, kind of, open their eyes to things that they weren’t aware of. So, a alternative angle is working with the parents of those children to help the parents to support their children. So, we’ve done a number of workshops in primary schools. So, absolutely, although that – the research sites are secondary, the learning from the overall project will include insights from primary schools, as well.
Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you very much, and the – it was interesting, the text that you’ve produced, is that readily available? Hmmm hmm, you… Laura Nott What’s that, sorry? Dr Arnon Bentovim …have mentioned – the text, the book that you’ve produced, or has been produced, you described… Laura Nott And we’ve got – yes, we’ve got two reports that are published currently, and they are both accessible through the schools webpage. We’ve got our in-depth detailed year one findings, which is a lengthy report, and then, we’ve got a shorter report, which is one of our Faithfull Papers, so a series of research findings that are presented on different topics. But we published one last November for schools and it’s – that is a shorter version of the year one findings. We’re about to publish our year two findings next month. So, they’ll be accessible on the website, and if anybody wants to receive that, you can just drop me your email and I’ll put you onto our distribution list for that. And then, the final report, there’ll be an overall year three report that gathers together all of the learning, and we’re looking at publishing an academic journal article, as well, to summarise the learning across the project. So, there should be four or five places to find the different stages of learning.
Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you very much. That’s really helpful. So, please look at the – look at your – on the website, because so much of the material is on the schools page there. And colleagues were saying that they’d love to collaborate with you, that they’re already working in this field and would like to share and to be in touch with you. So, I very much hope that this presentation will help to create and to increase the network, because the work that you’re doing, which is so essential, which is really to try to build on the notion of compassionate schools, schools that are really being able to listen and share, is such an important development for the whole field and for the whole prevention, not only of sexually abusive behaviour, but also of mental health problems.
Laura Nott Hmmm. Dr Arnon Bentovim Because as we know, so many mental health problems in children and young people stem from the determinants, such as issues to do with sexual abuse, sexual learning, experiences. And so, it’s so important to have a context where schools can actually begin to work in the, sort of, dynamic way that you’re describing. So, thank you very much, and I hope that all participants will have noticed the request from ACAMH to look at the evaluation and to let us know, give us some ideas about your views. And I suspect the main point that people will raise is that they’d like to have much more time with you, Laura, so that we could really learn more about the very detailed and important work that’s being done.
Laura Nott Hmmm hmm. Dr Arnon Bentovim So, thank you very much, on everybody’s behalf, Laura. Laura Nott Thank you. Dr Arnon Bentovim And thank you to colleagues and participants for the questions you’ve asked, and please make the links and continue to ask. But we’ll give Laura the list of questions, so that she may be able to be in touch and let you know personally and give you a response. So, thank you very much and please, fill in the evaluation to follow. Thank you so much. Laura Nott Thank you, Arnon, and genuinely, welcome contact from anybody with further questions or just wanting to stay in touch. So, yeah, put – I’d love to hear from you, and thank you again, Arnon and team, for this really great opportunity to share our work. Really enjoyed it, thank you.
Dr Arnon Bentovim And I hope you’ll come back and give us a follow-up at some point. Thank you. Laura Nott Any time, thank you. Dr Arnon Bentovim Thank you, everyone.