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Dr Gordana Milavić Hello, my name is Gordana Milavić. I am the Chair of the Association for Child and Adolescent Mental Health. I’m delighted to be with you today and to introduce our Webinar Series. We are proud to present this series named in honour of Professor Judy Dunn. The talks are aimed at disseminating and sharing the evidence-based research and practice on different topics related to the wellbeing and mental health of children and young people. We hope that parents and those working with children and young people will find the information helpful.
Before I go on to introduce our speakers for today, I would like to say a few words about Professor Dunn. She is an eminent Developmental Psychologist with a stellar career, spanning over 50 years. She has specialised in children’s social, emotional and sociocognitive development, parent-child, sibling and peer relationships, and the development of language and communication abilities. She has many credits to her name, and I shall mention just a few. She is Emeritus Professor of Developmental Psychology at King’s College London. She’s a Fellow of King’s College Cambridge. She’s Medical Research Council Senior Scientific Officer, Evan Pugh Professor and Professor of Human Development, Penn State University. Chair of the Children’s Society’s Good Childhood Inquiry and Fellow of the British Academy and Fellow of the Academy of Medical Sciences. ACAMH is honoured and privileged to present this series of talks in honour of Professor Dunn.
I would like to introduce the speaker for today, Professor Lucy Bowes, and her topic, “Why do children end up being bullied, or bully others, and what we can – we all do about it?” Professor Lucy Bowes is a Professor of Developmental Psychopathology at the University of Oxford and Principal Investigator of the oRANGE Lab. And oRANGE is an acronym which stands for Oxford Risk and Resilience Genes & Environment. She received her PhD from the Institute of Psychiatry, King’s College London. Lucy’s research examines how adverse experiences, such as bullying and maltreatment, influence emotional and behavioural development across childhood and adolescence. The overarching aim of her research is to guide intervention work, policy and practice, by identifying factors that promote positive outcomes among vulnerable children. I hope you will enjoy her talk today and have a better understanding of the potential impact of bullying on children’s wellbeing and identify risk factors for bullying and the involvement in bullying after today’s talk.
Professor Lucy Bowes Hi, everyone. It’s an absolute pleasure to be here today. I am Lucy Bowes, as you’ve just heard, a really lovely introduction, and I’m delighted to meet with you all and to talk a little bit about some research I and others have done on bullying, and to think about what we can all do about it. I’m just going to share my screen. Bear with me one moment. Wonderful, okay. So, in this talk today, I’m try – going to try to keep to time, ‘cause I’m really interested in the Q&A, in particular, afterwards, and having a good chance for a discussion. But nevertheless, I want to talk a little bit about what we mean by bullying, at least in research terms, because it has quite a specific definition. And think about those individuals who might be most at risk of becoming involved in bullying, either as young people who are victimised or those who perpetrate bullying. We’ll be thinking about the impacts of bullying on mental health and then, a big focus is on what we can all do about this.
And I know that we’re all very aware of the importance of research on risk factors for poor mental health, and indeed, in national statistics that came out not very long ago, it was suggested that up to one in five young people between the ages of eight and 25-years-old in England had a probable mental health disorder. So, very high and concerning prevalence rates. And particularly concerning because from that same data, when they zoomed in on children aged 11 to 16, those who had a probable mental disorder, so who scored high on different scales of poor mental health, were five times more likely to have been bullied than those without one. And I wanted to talk a bit about this relationship between bullying and mental health, because it really is quite a complex one.
So, when we think about definitions of bullying and the research definition that many of us use is that that was coined by Dan Olweus back in the 90s, and that is “Repeated, intentional harm where there’s a power differential between the bully and the victim.” And this power differential could be anything. It could be psychological, it could be physical, it could be social, but it makes it difficult for the young person who’s bullied to defend themselves. And there’s a big discussion in the literature and in the research about whether this definition needs to be adjusted, whether we need to widen the scope, but at its core, we’re talking about aggressive behaviour. It’s not a one-off and it’s intentional.
And of course, there are different types of bullying involvement. The most common is often verbal, so name calling and so on. We have heard about overt and physical bullying, punching and kicking, taking dinner money, relational and social bullying, so exclusion, being left out, having rumours spread about you, gossip spread about you. And a recent focus of concern has been on cyberbullying, which is any type of bullying that takes place in an online format. There are, you know, very valid concerns about cyberbullying, but I think us, in the research area, tend to view it as just another forum through which bullying can occur. So, it’s important that we consider it within this wider scope of bullying behaviours.
And actually, although there is research trying to look at these different types of bullying, and a question that’s often asked is, “What’s worse? Is there one that we should be tackling more than the others?” And like with many adverse experiences, it’s a little bit more complicated than that, because actually, what we typically find is that students who are bullied are often targeted in multiple different ways. So, those of whom who experience the most common type, verbal bullying, a large proportion may have experienced other types of bullying, as well. So, it’s often difficult, actually, to disentangle these different types of bullying and identify individuals who really only experience one type and not another. What we can say is that, you know, the more bullying that one experiences, the greater the risk of negative impacts.
So, then, thinking about the scale of the problem. One study I was involved with, and a few years back, looked a huge number of responses from adolescents in the UK aged 15 years, so over 110,000. And really concerningly, even at this older age, found that up to 30% reported some form of regular bullying, so that’s two to three times a month or more in the past couple of months alone. That’s a snapshot of 15-year-olds. It’s concerning, because actually, bullying rates typically decline over age, so by 15 years they’ve certainly gone down compared to primary school. So, these are really quite high prevalence rates.
And not all children are affected similarly. We know that young people with special educational needs and disabilities are more likely to experience bullying. These – this was from a study that looked at the, sort of, the relative prevalence rates of bullying. But certainly, again, what we can say is young people who have autism spectrum condition, or ADHD, for example, are much more likely to be victimised by others, and there is some indication, as well, that they may be more involved in bullying in other ways, as well. So, they also perpetrate bullying type behaviours.
Other difficulties, as well, for example, like developmental language delay, we’re looking at in our lab and we also find that young people with developmental language delay are more likely to experience bullying. And I flagged this because although I will talk a lot about what we can do on bullying, I think this is one area where we really desperately need more research. We need to understand whether our current interventions are sufficient and whether our current definitions are sufficient, and what additional support we can have.
So, what we have is a risk factor with a high prevalence rate, and unfortunately, a wealth of evidence that this particular risk factor, being bullied in childhood, looks to be particularly harmful for young people’s mental health. So, in some work that I was involved with, we looked at the risk of childhood bullying on later depression at 18 years and found that even accounting for lots of other variables that might explain both whether or not young people are bullied or whether or not they develop depression, we found that up to 26% of depression in this, sort of, late adolescence/early adult period, might be attributable to bullying involvement, if this is a causal relationship. So, that’s really quite concerning, and this high proportion is in part because bullying, unfortunately, is so common and because we find evidence of this strong relationship with various different types of mental health difficulties.
And it’s not just depression. There is evidence, and from longitudinal studies that have followed children over time, into adolescence, adulthood and even into older age, and they’ve found that being bullied as a child is associated with things like anxiety and depression, but also behavioural problems, externalising difficulties, difficulties at school with school achievement and attainment, self-harm, suicidal ideation and even psychotic symptoms. So, it’s a – very much a non-specific risk factor for a broad range of difficulties across the life course.
The most widely accepted model of bullying is based on the socioecological model, and I wanted to, sort of, focus on that for a little bit, because whether or not young people are involved in bullying, it is not just down to any one simple thing. But thinking now about bullying perpetration and why this might happen. We know that there are individual factors that might increase a child’s likelihood of being involved in perpetrating bullying. One of the models of bullying looks at the function of bullying is “goal directed aggression, with the aim of increasing social status,” and that’s particularly true for young people who need to feel powerful. They may have either low self-esteem themselves, or they may be driven by these, sort of, aims for social status. And in settings where social status may be achieved by more aggressive forms, we typically say they’re more at risk of perpetrating bullying.
Young people who have difficulties regulating their emotions, from anger, but also irritability and sadness, are more likely to be involved in bullying. Those with impulsivity, who are finding it tricky to inhibit their behaviours, might be more likely to be involved in bullying. Again, so typically young children with ADHD, for example, who are more likely to lash out or just struggle with their emotions, are overrepresented in these groups. But it’s not just young people with ADHD, of course. It’s, you know, lots of young people and these are just some of the individual level factors that can increase risk for perpetration.
In terms of being bullied, the most common individual factors for that are low self-esteem, depressive symptoms, symptoms of anxiety or social withdrawal in younger years. But the individual, of course, is nested within their, sort of, their relationship space and different relationships seem to matter when we’re thinking about involvement in bullying. So, again, the peer group really matters. So, the young people involved in perpetrating bullying, those who might have this need for social status, if they’re in a peer group that reinforces these negative behaviours, that are providing positive reinforcement for aggression, maybe assisting the bullying behaviours in some way, sharing messages online, cornering someone, spreading those rumours, this can all serve to facilitate perpetration.
But it’s not just the peer group that matters, either. There’s a strong role, I would say, of parent-child relationships and this could be from social learning mechanisms, so parents who might be more aggressive, where there are more violence at home or negativity in the home environment. They may provide an increased risk for a child to be involved in bullying, and that might be through social learning mechanisms, so modelling behaviours, but of course, it would also be through other mechanisms, as well. Parents who are more aggressive are more likely to have offspring who are more aggressive, but these relationships matter. I’ve put on here ‘parents’ but some of our work has also looked at siblings, and we know that young people who are bullied by siblings at home are also more likely to be bullied at school. And the sibling relationship seems to be particularly important.
Again, for victims of bullying, relationships really matter. So, negative relationships, maltreatment, sibling bullying, are an increased risk factor for bullying, but positive relationships seem to be really important in promoting resilience. I’ll talk a little bit more about that later on. So, beyond the, sort of, the network of people around a young child is the community that they find themselves in, and different communities might increase risk of bullying in different ways. Thinking about the neighbourhood, some work that we’ve done have found that neighbourhoods where there is increased antisocial behaviour, violence, gangs, children living in those neighbourhoods are more likely to be involved in bullying, both as bullies and as victims. It could be to do with the, sort of, local norms around use of aggressive behaviour to gain resources.
And it’s not just the neighbourhoods, of course, and a lot of research has focused on schools. And we know that school norms around bullying and aggression seem to really matter. They may be set by Teachers. So, we know that bullying rates are particularly high where Teachers are very stressed, where they may feel unsupported by their – the school system. They may be struggling themselves. They may, unfortunately, reinforce peer hierarchies and these – this can be in subtle ways. It could be if there is a child that Teachers are finding tricky to manage, unfortunately. This may also set a signal for the other children in the class that this child is one that we can – that I am talking to in a particularly, you know, maybe a more negative way. And this, unfortunately, might serve to reinforce existing hierarchies, or even set hierarchies, within the classroom setting.
So, Teacher stress, Teacher burnout, these factors do play a role, but also, Teachers’ attitudes towards bullying. Whether they take it seriously, whether they consider this to be a factor that children need to, sort of, get on and learn how to deal with themselves or whether they model supportive behaviours. And, of course, I think most Teachers would do the latter, so please remember, when I’m talking about risk factors, it’s always the minority of cases that we’re talking about here. So, thinking, then, beyond communities of schools and neighbourhoods, we know that societal norms also matter. And here, we’ll be thinking about broader social norms around the use of dominance, the use of aggression, to gain resources, to gain social status and means. We know that gender norms are often played out in the school. So, bullying often – you often see, sort of, gender norms coming up in bullying. So, girls who don’t follow particular norms might be bullied for that by others, who might be seen as different in some way, boys as well. Transgender youth are much more likely to be bullied by their peers, unfortunately, and also, to suffer poor mental health as a consequence of this bullying.
We know that social norms around exclusion of minority groups, for example, are often played out in school. And so, we cannot isolate these, sort of, individual and school related variables from these wider social norms. We have to understand that it occurs in a context. It doesn’t mean that we cannot intervene and support young children who are being bullied, and support schools who are dealing with bullying and families, but we do need to remember that this does exist in a context.
Okay, so moving forward, I really wanted to focus on what we can actually do about bullying. What can students do? What can parents do? What can Teachers and schools do? Well, thinking about students that are involved in bullying, when I talk about bullying, it really is the minority of students who are directly involved. So, when we think about young children, or young people, who are involved in bullying, only around 8% - ooh, excuse me, it’s got an animation – only around 8% might be involved as children who bully others and about 12% might be victimised by bullies, but they are the minority.
A small group of children might be actively assisting the bully, or reinforcing it in some way, maybe by laughing or crowding round to see what’s happening. But actually, the biggest group of young people are those who are present, they’re not laughing and they’re not sharing, but they are present, they witness the bullying, and they do not feel able or confident to anything about it. And again, another group of young people might have more confidence, might have ways, or discussed ways in which they feel able to support young people involved in bullying. So, those we might think about as defenders of young people who are being victimised.
And so, there’s a real social dynamic involved in a classroom context when we think about bullying, and that’s interesting ‘cause it contrasts with what happens if you speak to individual students. And of course, when you ask a child or a young person what they think about bullying, nearly all of them will say that it’s wrong and that they wouldn’t endorse using these kinds of behaviours and that they don’t agree with it. But despite holding these, sort of, anti-bullying attitudes, many students, those outsiders, will behave in ways, whether they know it or they don’t, that unfortunately, serve to maintain bullying, or even worse, that actually may fuel the bullying behaviours.
And we know this from research that’s looked at classroom dynamics and bullying, and we know that in classrooms where students tend to reinforce the child that’s doing the bullying, rather than provide more active support to their bullied classmates, you tend to see higher prevalence rates of bullying. We also see that in those kinds of classroom settings, the more vulnerable children, so, for example, those with – who are more socially anxious, more withdrawn, more shy, are more likely to end up of targets of bullying. So, this dynamic can be really important and actually, educating young people around the different roles in bullying can be quite transformative.
And so, how can we actually support students? Well, providing empathy, training empathy, understanding what it’s like to feel left out, to feel excluded from a group, which really is at the heart of bullying, can be really important. But, of course, you shouldn’t just expect young people to be able to stand up and stand in. I often take a moment here to think – I think probably everyone on this call has been in a situation where maybe they’ve been with other people, they’ve been in some kind of public space or a work environment, and someone’s said or done something that makes us feel uncomfortable. Maybe not directly to us, maybe to someone else.
And for those of you who have experienced that, and I know I have, myself, then perhaps you can relate with this feeling of finding something to be wrong, but not knowing, or not feeling confident enough to be able to step in. Not knowing what to do. Not knowing how to help. Worried that you might make the situation worsen, somehow, or that you might put yourself at risk, and it’s a really horrible and uncomfortable feeling. And if we felt that as adults, many of us, imagine then being in a classroom, where, you know, the peer influence is so strong and caring what others think about you is really at the core of, you know, of childhood, particularly into adolescence.
So, then, of course, it’s one thing saying that we must support young children who are being bullied, or support adolescents who are being bullied, but actually, doing that is not easy. So, we need to work with young people to help them identify ways in which they feel confident and able to step in or to gain support and to help young people who are involved in bullying. We need to all work together to do this. It won’t work if we just ask one person to step in. It really has to be about changing the norms so that everyone supports those per – those young people who are being targeted. And also, understanding that small things matter. It can be as simple as going and sitting next to someone. It can make a huge difference. Asking if someone’s okay or if they want to join in a game can make a really big difference to a young person’s life.
Okay, so, then, thinking what can parents do in this situation? I think for parents, understanding that it’s really our behaviour that children are learning from, more than our words and what we tell them at home. So, modelling kindness, modelling inclusion, really matters, and that can be in all sorts of ways. That can be how we talk to others in front of our children, but it can also be when your child is having a birthday party, for example. Think about who they’re inviting and also, who they’re not inviting. It’s also – you know, it’s very common to see that young children who have special educational needs are often the ones that are missed out on those kinds of birthday invitations or playdates. Perhaps unknowingly, or perhaps because it might be that parents don’t know how to integrate, or are unconfident, not confident in having a young person there, but all of this matters because we want to model inclusion. We want to model support and care.
If your child has been bullied, or comes to you and talks about bullying, it’s really important that we provide space to listen to that young person, really to hear what’s been going on, for them to talk, for them to share what’s going on. If actually, they come to you and – or you hear that your child has been bullying someone else, again, understanding where that young person is coming from, really listening to your child matters. And it’s very difficult, I think, as a parent. Our first step is often, or our first reaction is often to be defensive, “My child wouldn’t do that, they know better than that.” But rather than, you know, starting a conversation where you feel defensive if another parent or a Teacher comes to you to say that your child has been involved in bullying others, try first to find out more about the situation. Find out what was going on, what the young person, or your young person was doing, what the actual context around this was, and take this as an opportunity for your child to learn something important. It may be that your child was absolutely unaware of the consequence of their actions, they didn’t realise, or it may be that your child was feeling hurt or upset by something or was annoyed at another child for a previous action. But really listening to your child and understanding, and talking them through it, promoting empathy, helping them to see what that might have felt like, from another’s perspective, can be really useful here.
And if your child is the one who’s being bullied, taking this seriously. So, bullying can have serious consequences, so we need to provide that space for young people to share how they’re feeling, validate how they’re feeling, listen to their responses. We know that trying to say, “Well, it doesn’t matter,” or “It will end,” you know, “This isn’t a serious concern,” or dismissing it, is probably not very helpful. On the one hand, I think we just need to listen with curiosity. We also don’t want to share the message that this is something that will, you know – that’s not possible to stop, that will keep going forever, or that the world’s a bad and scary place. We just need to be able to hear our children and provide safe spaces for them to talk.
Work with your child’s school. Going to see the school, talking with them, following up to see what actions they have implemented and how they’re working is really, really important. So, keeping that conversation with school going, wherever possible. And beyond the, kind of, immediate dealing with a situation, there may be other ways to support a child. So, for example, building in other opportunities for healthy friendships, increasing playdates with different children, for example, or joining different clubs. And providing opportunities for your young person to gain self-confidence, so that they feel better able to tackle difficult situations at school and don’t feel so alone.
I wanted to share this slide from some work that we did some years ago, where we were looking at relationships at home and whether or not they promoted resilience to bullying, both in terms of how well children did emotionally and behaviourally, following episodes of bullying. And really, in summary, what we found here is that having warm and positive relationships at home really do promote resilience to bullying, both in terms of emotional bullying, so children will have fewer symptoms of depression and anxiety if they’re in a home where there’s high levels of maternal and sibling warmth, and a better overall positive atmosphere at home, compared to those children that don’t have these resources. They will also show more behavioural resilience, as well. So, really promoting strong relationships at home, I think may be really important.
And really, I think one message that I – is very important is that it’s not just about whether our children are directly involved in bullying, whether they’re perpetrating bullying or whether they’ve experienced bullying themselves, because actually, bullying is a problem that affects everyone, and because of that, it also concerns all parents. So, really, what we need to be doing is promoting, sort of, active bystander behaviour. Talking to children about this, thinking about what can be done to support someone who’s being bullied, modelling active support, modelling empathy.
So, moving beyond parents now, what can Teachers do? Well, Teachers’ role really is crucial, I would say, and most bullying, I should also add, does happen at school. It’s even more common to experience face-to-face bullying at school than it is for something like cyberbullying, online, most of the time, and Teachers are at the forefront of this, so their role really matters. Their role matters in identifying cases of bullying that might be going on in the school, to support individual children who are directly involved, but also, as I mentioned earlier, in terms of influencing classroom norms, making students’ private attitudes visible. So, helping to promote this anti-bullying attitude that many children hold. And actually, students’ perception of what their Teacher thinks about bullying also matters and affects, or seems to influence, the level of bullying. So, in classrooms where children don’t think Teachers care, don’t think they would step in, you see higher prevalence rates of bullying. But on the flipside, in classrooms and in schools where young people feel heard, feel listened to and believe that Teachers will step in, you see lower prevalence rates of bullying.
And I think there is also lots of positive news from intervention research, as well, about what schools can do, and there’s been a number of systematic reviews, where evidence has been collected from lots of different randomised controlled trials of anti-bullying interventions. And the, kind of, nutshell of this is that school-based programmes, particularly universal programmes that target the whole school, are effective in reducing bullying prevalence rates. I wanted just to focus, in the last part of this talk, before we open it up for discussion, on one programme that we have been trialling here in the UK, and that’s the KiVa Anti-bullying Programme. This is one that’s potentially one of the most promising programmes, that’s being used worldwide for reducing bullying, in this case in primary schools, so for young people aged, actually, between seven and 12. And it’s been taken to scale and evaluated now, in several different countries, with evidence of effectiveness.
So, the KiVa Anti-bullying Programme was developed at the University of Turku by Professor Christina Salmivalli, and it really was following, kind of, discussions with the Finnish Ministry of Education and Culture, after bullying was really highlighted as an issue in the country. And they had decided to put a, sort of, a nationwide focus on tackling bullying. And this is an example of a programme that has been taken to scale and proven to be effective year-on-year. At one point, it was used by over 90% of public schools in Finland, so it really did go wide. And as I mentioned, it’s been evaluated and is also available in several other countries, including here in the UK.
And at the core of the KiVa Anti-bullying Programme is the idea that it’s about influencing group dynamics. It’s not really about changing children who are bullied in any way. So, we’re not just looking at young people who are victimised and trying to promote better self-esteem or better friendships, as if somehow, we can make them less vulnerable to bullying. It does acknowledge that individual characteristics might put young people at increased risk, but it’s not really about those characteristics, at all. It’s understanding the norms of the classroom that might put those children at increased risk in the first place. And the idea is that influencing the behaviour of bystanders can reduce the rewards, the social rewards that might be gained by young people who are bullying others. And if you reduce the social rewards gained by bullying others, then actually, you reduce the motivation to bully in the first place.
That being said, young children who are bullied at school need to feel that they’re heard and need to know that they’re helped by adults in the school. So, the programme has different elements. It has indicated actions for those young people who are directly experiencing bullying, to enable them to feel listened to and to make sure that indicated actions have changed. And also, whole school universal actions, where the effort is in changing social norms around bullying. Children who are bullying others also need to be confronted for their unacceptable behaviour. They need to learn that this is wrong, that this is not acceptable behaviour, this is not what we do. And again, that’s a core component of the KiVa indicated actions between those who are directly involved in bullying.
So, in terms of the, sort of, intervention elements, or components, KiVa ha – is mostly classroom delivered, so it’s taught by Teachers, and these student lessons involve a focus on things like understanding what it’s like to be part of a group and what it’s like to feel left out. Who is left out and why? Promoting empathy for those who are, and then teaching about the role of bystanders, the fact that if you witness bullying, but you don’t do anything about it, actually, unfortunately, you might send a signal or a message that this is okay, or worse, that you endorse it, that you think that this is a good thing. And you can make the impact of bullying worse for the student who’s being bullied. So, helping children to understand that, but then to think about how they can change their behaviour to support the young people who are being targeted, how they can become active bystanders.
Beyond the, kind of, core student lessons, there is also a KiVa team. Those are for, sort of, direct instances of bullying. It’s usually a team of three per school, but it can be more, depending on the size of school, and there are very clear guidelines that they can follow for tackling indicated actions of bullying. And it involves having an – different meetings with the young people directly involved, coming up with a plan and also, checking back in and making sure those instances of bullying have reduced and ideally, stopped altogether. Because of the understanding that bullying often takes place where Teachers are not present, the programme has things like hi-vis jackets for Teachers, to make their presence more salient in the school, particularly in unsupervised times, like breaktimes.
There’s also a lot of identifying as a KiVa school, to remind everyone in the school that “We are a KiVa school, that we” – you know, “we support people here, we promote empathy, we promote understanding, and we step in and help others.” And that’s done by posters around the school, very visible posters, to really remind, and also, by making sure that everyone in the whole school is trained on what it means to be a KiVa school. So, that’s anyone from the teaching staff, but also, those helping in the dining room, for example, and TAs, everyone present in the school.
There are also some parent materials. I’ll talk about that in a moment. Not very many, but there is some work that goes back home and some online games to try to facilitate some of the learning goals. And the KiVa is monitored by yearly online surveys, which the schools receive the results of, so that they can actually track their own progress and see how bullying rates are changing within their school. Thinking about some of the activities within the classroom element. This involves things like group discussions, small group discussions, learning by doing, and all of this is designed to create awareness of how groups might maintain and fuel bullying, and to provide safe strategies to support victimised peers. I should say that the activities themselves were co-developed by Teachers in Finland and have been adapted and modified for use in other settings, as well.
The parents’ involvement, I would say, is a little bit light touch for my liking. I think parents really are important, but with many school-based interventions, there is a limit, unfortunately, to how much we can engage parents, at least when we’re running trials. But nevertheless, KiVa has things like an information letter to parents and a guidebook that’s sent to them. There’s a “Back to School Night,” where parents hear about the work of KiVa in their child’s school. I’ve talked a little bit already about the posters and the hi-vis jackets.
The KiVa team are the ones who hold those discussions with those directly involved in bullying, but they also do things like utilise pro-social or very high-status peers, to help support the work in the classroom. You know, sharing this message that “Your help is needed,” that “You’re setting standards for others. How can you help young children who are being excluded or bullied, and how can you protect,” or “how can we all protect, children from further bullying?” And the values taught by this particular programme involve things like respect for others, respect for one’s individual rights. Tolerance of different behaviours and different ways of presenting oneselves and a shared responsibility of everyone’s wellbeing. That it’s not just about a few, but actually, it’s everybody’s responsibility to support each other.
Some of the data from Finland is very positive. So, this is just looking at the national rollout of bullying using their annual survey and you can see, year-on-year, reductions in bullying, as evidenced by this rollout. There’s also, as I’ve mentioned, been randomised controlled trials. The one in Finland was very effective. The one in the Netherlands also showed significant reduction in victimisation, also, in Italy. We have just run a big trial in the UK, and I would love to have been able to share the results, but they are still embargoed at this time. But as I mentioned, KiVa is also available in the UK.
It isn’t the only programme that we have to target bullying. So, I also wanted to mention just a couple of others, in case anyone is interested, because the data for KiVa really is about primary school, so bullying in the younger years. For secondary school, there was a trial by Professor Chris Bonell and colleagues and Russell Viner, called the INCLUSIVE trial, that had really strong evidence of success, as well, in both reducing bullying and victimisation, but also improving young people’s mental health. And that programme works a little bit differently.
The framework is around restorative justice and techniques. So, if anyone is interested in programmes that use restorative justice, or indeed any other information around bullying, I would encourage you to have a look at the tools provided by the Anti-Bullying Alliance, and I’ve put the link in here. And for anyone that wants to find out more about the KiVa programme, this is the, sort of, big KiVa website, but you can also, through that link, have a look at what’s going on in the UK and where KiVa is available.
But I wanted to thank you all for listening and I hope I’ve left us with lots of time for us to have a good discussion. So, please, I welcome any questions. If you could pop those in the chat, that would be wonderful. I will stop sharing screens now. Oh, actually, if you could stop – I can’t stop sharing screen, but if you could do that for me, that would be wonderful. Thank you, that is great. Brilliant, and I’m going to have a look and turn it over to you now, for everyone in the chat. Thank you [pause]. Thank you, also, everyone, for sharing your backgrounds. It’s been very interesting to know who’s on the call [pause].
One thing, while I’m waiting for people to add in some questions. So, we have been working on adapting KiVa for use in special schools in the UK. So, we have a paper on that. KiVa, good question, it’s a – so, some – Gabriella asks, “What does KiVa stand for?” It’s a Finnish word, and I’m not even going to try and pronounce it, but it means ‘kindness’. And so, we’ve used the same name because the branding and everything is still from Finland [pause].
So, we have – Rebecca says, “It’s difficult to know how to act when the bullied child doesn’t want Teachers to act, speak to the bully, because they feel it makes it worse. What would you suggest?” That’s a really great question. I think that’s also true for parents, Rebecca, and I, sort of, hesitated on that slide, because I do want to encourage parents to talk to the school, and also, for Teachers to step in. But it – but we also want to make sure we’re listening to our young person, and I think that’s very common because of the powerlessness and the fear around the young person.
So, I guess, speaking with the child to understand what they do feel able to do, is an important step. Talking with them and saying, you know, “This is not all on you and this really is unacceptable, so I will be reinforcing the message to my class for everyone that these behaviours are unacceptable, and that when you see these behaviours, if you do nothing, unfortunately, you are supporting them.” So, then it becomes less about that individual child and more about influencing those classroom norms, I think is what I would encourage for Teachers, so that it goes beyond the child.
But then, making sure that you’re having regular check-ins with that child, seeing how it’s going. If it’s not change – if the situation is not improving by tackling the broader, sort of, support and maybe providing opportunities for increasing peer support, perhaps, by asking another child to step in and stand up for that child, then I think, at some point, you’d have to say, “Well, listen, because unfortunately this behaviour is continuing, I really need to speak to those involved. This is unacceptable and I’m going to bring them in.” And I think you – I think at some point, we really have to, if it’s not changing.
So, Juanita says, “Do the same principles apply to cyberbullying and similar approaches work?” Another excellent question. Yes, I would say everything suggests that the same principles do seem to be involved with cyberbullying, perhaps with some differences. So, it’s still the case that the function of bullying might be to gain your own – you know, gain visibility in some way, gain social power in some way. So, the core element of doing something online is for visibility, to make your actions seen and this essence of public ridicule that’s at the heart of bullying still plays out in online space.
It is often the case that children who are bullied at school and that bullying will be taken online, and it may be, and it often is, the same peers that are bullying them at school, that are doing that online, but not always, of course. It can be others. Most interventions – school-based interventions do seem to improve cyberbullying, as well, to an extent. But I suppose the challenge is if it’s beyond the school and if it’s not just young people at school who are doing the bullying. But the same principles of stepping in and supporting people who are being bullied also playout online and becoming an active bystander, making sure you’re not sharing messages, or countering negative messages with positive messages, also seems to be effective. So, I would say at the heart, actually, of supporting young person, understanding what it’s like to be excluded and stepping in as an active bystander, still plays out online, to a similar extent.
Kathy asks, “When are my results on the UK programme?” As soon as it is accepted for publication. I wish I could share now. It’s a bit frustrating that I can’t. There was an early study of KiVa in Wales, but we have just finished a very large study with 118 primary schools across the UK. I will be sharing them widely when they are out, and I will make sure that they are available and that you’ll be able to find those.
Michael says, “Thanks for a really helpful presentation. How would you help schools in developing their understanding definition of intent? I have a school that has a tick list of four areas, based on the Anti-Bullying Alliance definition, and due to most instances not meeting the four areas, the school believes that they have almost no bullying. They’ve also said that children with SEN can’t be intentional bullying others.” I’m really glad that you highlighted this, and this actually speaks to some of the questions around – that I have, and other Researchers have, around the definition.
I like the – so, the INCLUSIVE trial, that I mentioned at the end, actually went beyond a narrow definition of bullying because of this issue. Because of the fact that it’s quite hard, sometimes, to know if something’s intentional. Also, the power differential can be difficult, because sometimes you can have almost an unhealthy relationship or friendship, where the power differential flits between students. So, it’s not always obvious, but certainly, the dynamic is unhelpful and is an aggressive one that’s not positive. And for those kinds of situations, things like restorative justice, or promoting positive relationships, is still really helpful.
I think the intent thing is also partly due to the fact that bullying falls under harassment, so it’s a term used in law, as well. So, intent becomes really important there. But I think what I would focus on with the school, or any school, is we shouldn’t get stuck on definitions when we’re recording. We should be listening to our young people. And whether or not we know that something’s done intentionally is – that is important, but let’s face it, how a young person feels is the most important. And if your young people are struggling and they’re finding things – they’re finding school not a safe place to be, or a place they don’t want to be, then the school, of course, wants to support those young people. And in order to be able to do that, we need to understand how to make every child feel included and supported. So, I can understand the point about the tick boxes, but I think it would be more about how to promote a school that has healthy wellbeing, supportive relationships and is really flourishing, beyond just a, sort of, a tick box approach.
Your point, as well, about children with SEN, I think is a really valuable one. So, I do think there is – you know, we might not call it bullying within our research definition, but certainly, when you have reactive aggression, it matters and it’s difficult to manage in the classroom. But understanding why some children might be lashing out at others is really important, and again, that would be understanding the context. It does depend on what’s going on. So, for example, a child who’s autistic might be lashing out because another child may be, intentionally or not, doing something that they find really hard and really overstimulating, and it comes out as aggressive behaviour.
I’ve – you know, I know about situations where it can be as simple as someone’s wearing a particular shirt, or has a – you know, is doing something, maybe making a noise, and they’re really struggling to manage their emotions around the child and it comes out. So, trying to understand the context, separating children to try to reduce that, kind of, overstimulation, can be really important. It might not fit our research definition of bullying, but it’s also not behaviours that we want in our school. So, thinking about how we can provide support, in those instances, I think is really needed, which is really why my lab is now focusing in on that. ‘Cause I do think we probably need more and we need some adaptations to what we currently have to make sure that we’re better supporting those stu – schools and those students.
KiVa – so, there was a question about ‘KiVa costs’. Yes, it does, and it does have a small cost. It’s definitely less than the pupil premium. I believe the current price, it’s less than £2,000 per school, in total. The training, I think, is about £600, but some of the cost is for the annual survey. Sometimes what we find is schools are already subscribing to various different programmes, so this can be something that is quite good. It fits within the PHSE curriculum, but of course, there is a cost. I would love for it to be free, but it isn’t. I think restorative justice also has a cost, as well.
“About the presentation. I work in CAMHS on Isle of Wight. Lots of issues for young people going through transition from primary to secondary, where they felt more support was available in primary school, but felt lost who to speak to and feel trust once in secondary school.” That’s a really important point, and some of my earlier work looked at this transition, and there are a couple of things. One, when you see this transition to secondary school, bullying prevalence rates tend to peak, so you have a spike. Some of the theory is that the, kind of, the social status, the social relationships, take some time to settle, so we see an increase at school entry. Also, young people are more nervous, more shy. There’s lots of other reasons, as well, why we might expect this to be a delicate or a difficult transition.
I think we don’t know that much about what works, then, but I would suspect things like parents making sure they’re – have space for their child to talk to, to feel supported, to facilitate friendships, new friendships being made. Finding out who – which Teacher the young person feels most comfortable with. In secondary schools, of course, changing Teachers all the time can be tricky, and just because someone is your Form Teacher, you might not feel able to talk with them. But oftentimes, what you’ll find is that there is one Teacher whom that child feels closer to and maybe more able to speak to. But I think that is an area where we need to do more work and to make sure that we’re really supporting children.
We have a question on whether people – duh, duh, duh, duh, duh. “Is there any evidence that bullying is worse in single-sex or co-educational schools?” Good question. Hmmm, no, there isn’t evidence that it’s worse, but there’s certainly evidence that it takes place. I paused because interestingly, the majority of bullying takes place within sex. So, it’s more likely that girls will bully girls and that boys will bully boys, but that’s, you know, that’s just the majority of cases. That’s clearly not all cases. And you get more bullying at younger years among boys than among girls. So, the pause was I suppose it’s possible that you might see more bullying in boys’ schools, but I haven’t seen that reported, actually. And I think it’s because bullying takes place in this broader network of other factors.
It probably wouldn’t be as simple as just co-ed or single-sex. I think it would depend on things like the norms around bullying in that school, what Teachers do to support young people, to promote positive behaviour, and to make sure it’s clear that bullying is unacceptable in this school. And I think it’s those factors that really influence the prevalence rate of bullying, more than just whether it’s co-ed or single-sex [pause].
Anita said, “Coming back to addressing the bully when the child’s reluctant or scared for the bully to be confronted, I agree addressing issues in the classrooms or whole schools works. At the same time, I believe once an adult steps in when witnessing this kind of behaviour, it does not put the bullied child in fear and instead, instils the sense of safety.” Again, I agree with you, Anita, and I do think it is important, because we – you know, young people are frightened, and they’re scared to step up and step in. And although we want to listen to them, we also want to scaffold them and support them and provide the support for them, and to show them that they’re being listened to and actions will be taken. So, making a way to do that sensitively really matters.
And you’re absolutely right, and the evidence supports that, that when action is taken, in the majority of the cases, the bullying will lesson. It will get better. Just by providing a space for the child to speak, so, I think that’s – that is the first step. I think making sure that children are listened to matters, but we do have to follow that up with actions and we have to make sure that the bullying stops, fundamentally. It cannot be allowed to continue. Thank you. Karina says, “Has the KiVa Programme been able to change the school culture and has it reduced bullying?” So, bullying – KiVa has been shown to do that in nearly every trial, so to reduce bullying victimisation, yes. School culture’s an interesting one. So, some studies have looked at things like school climate, so children report on their perception of school climate and that’s been shown to improve. I was trying to think of other measures. So, we have looked at things like Teacher wellbeing, as well, in our trial, and how Teachers are doing, because we know that that plays an important role. Other studies haven’t tended to look at the Teacher wellbeing within the study and I think that’s really important. Particularly – I don’t – I can’t speak to the other places where KiVa has been trialled, but I know that the UK context is one and that we’re dealing with a massive amount of Teacher burnout and stress.
Our Teachers are under so much strain and I – and we know from other research, that where Teachers are really stressed and really struggling, we will see a rise in behavioural issues and particularly bullying in the classroom. So, one thing we were really keen with was not to burden Teachers, actually. Ideally to support them and to reduce their load by providing helpful strategies, but certainly not to overburden them, and whenever you’re providing, you know, more lessons for the Teachers to give, that can be really difficult. We have to be sensitive to the fact that Teachers are already dealing with so much, and I hope one thing that may have come through this talk is that bullying is not just the Teacher’s responsibility, either. I mentioned I wished that KiVa had more involvement of parents, because I think we sometimes view bullying as a problem with schools, and we limit it to schools, and we think that the intervention has to just be at school. But bullying really is everyone’s problem, and it really is something that parents need to work on, too, not just if your child is directly involved, but all parents having that conversation. And we need to think broadly about the norms that we’re setting for our young people, and I think that’s essential and not often spoken about enough, ‘cause I think that makes a big difference.
Great. I think we are nearly at time. It’s the last three minutes. I know that we had a survey, so if people have a moment to fill in the survey, that would be really great. We’d be very grateful for your comments. But I wanted to thank everyone, again, for coming to the webinar and for asking such great questions. For those of you who have any more questions, or if I haven’t answered your question and you – or you would like to go into more, please do email me. You’ll find my email address – in fact, I’ll just pop it in the chat now, so everyone has it, but you’d be very welcome to. But thank you again for coming.