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Dr Eugene Lee Davis Hi, everyone. I’m Eugene Lee Davis, Senior Lecturer in the Department of Health Studies at the University of South Africa. Welcome to the talk today, where we’ll be looking at “Parenting Styles and Their Influence on Decision-Making and Anxiety in Children and Adolescents.” So, to start with an overview of what we’ll be looking at, we’ll examine how parenting styles have a profound impact on the development of children and adolescents, including their decision-making abilities and mental health. As well as exploring the relationship between parenting styles and decision-making, as well as how decision-making styles shape anxiety symptomology in children and adolescents.
So, to get started, it’s most probably best to start looking at what is parenting styles? Parenting styles is often the manner in which parents, or as Diana Baumrind has proposed, four types of decision-making style. These are four styles of parenting that differs in relation to the warmth and control. The first being authoritative parenting, which is high on warmth and high on control, and these are often parents who would say something, like, “Let’s talk about it,” they are responsive, they set clear standards and are reciprocal. Then there’s the authoritarian parenting style, that’s high on control and low on warmth, and often would say something, like, “You do this because I have said so.” They are normally emotionally distant, show very little warmth, and set clear rules.
The permissive parenting style is high on warmth and low on control, and this is often parents who try to be friends with their children and who’d say something, like, “Let’s be friends.” They often set fewer rules, they’re lenient and accepting, and these are the permissive parenting styles that we have. The fourth type is the neglectful parent, and this is a parenting style that is low on warmth and low on control, and so this is someone who would say something, like, “You are on your own when it comes to this,” and it is a parent who’s absent, passive and uninterested. And so this is an overview of the four parenting styles, as outlined by Diana Baumrind.
So, when we are looking at these parenting styles, the authoritative parent is often one who would promote autonomy and independence in the child and adolescent, which is often very good for decision-making. The authoritarian parent prioritises obedience over independence, with a limited ability to make decisions for the child and adolescent. The permissive parent allows children to have significant freedom, with very little guidance or discipline, and the neglectful parent demonstrate a lack of interest in the child’s wellbeing. And so, this is an overview of the four parenting styles that we will be examining, in terms of the relationship with decision-making styles.
Now we’ll be examining parenting styles and decision-making. The first parenting style is the authoritative parent, and this particular parent fosters a sense of autonomy and independence, and encourages critical thinking and problem solving abilities, which is normally good for decision-making. It promotes – this particular parenting style promotes open communication and collaboration when it comes to decision-making, which is seen as being relatively good. The authoritarian parenting style, however, may lead to reliance on authority figures for decision-making, limits the development of independent decision-making skills, which results in a fear of making mistakes or taking risks when it comes to the decision-making.
The permissive parent, we’d find that there would be the lack of guidance that may lead to impulsive decision-making, and this difficulty would come about considering long-term consequences in terms of the outcomes of the behaviours, or alternatives that have been selected, inconsistent decision-making patterns, often due to a lack of structure that comes about. Neglectful parenting and – often leads to the potential difficulties in identifying and managing emotions that influences decisions later on. So, we’ve had a look at parenting styles and the role that parenting styles plays in decision-making.
I’ll now introduce you to decision-making styles. Decision-making styles is the way in which one approaches particular alternatives when having a situation wi – in which a decision needs to be made, and this is shaped by a number of factors such as impulsivity, information gathering and risk assessment. There’s a number of decision-making theories out there, but I will introduce you to one, by Janis and Mann, who have proposed a “conflict model of decision-making.” They have proposed four styles of decision-making, namely, vigilant decision-making, hypervigilant, procrastination, and buck-passing.
Vigilant decision-making is when one evaluates all the possible alternatives and is optimistic about finding an alternative. There’s no concern of time and you look at which alternative would yield the best possible outcome. Because there’s an array of decision-making styles available, one would often group this as being an adaptive form of decision-making. Then there is the hypervigilant decision-making style. This is when one is optimistic about finding an alternative, but the issue of time creeps in, and one often makes a hasty decision as a result of time and brings about stress.
The other decision-making style is procrastination, and this is normally where we put off making a decision until the latest stage. Buck-passing is where we shift the responsibility of making the decision onto someone else. So, these are the four decision-making styles and one could group them into adaptive and maladaptive decision-making. Adaptive, the so-called “good” decision-making styles, where one evaluates all the possible alternatives, and maladaptive ones, where the issue of time comes about and we make a hasty decision. We either put off making a decision until a later stage, or we shift the responsibility to make the decision. So, we’ve had to look at parenting styles and the role that parenting styles plays in decision-making.
I’d now like to introduce you to decision-making styles. This is the approach that one uses when making choices when faced with the situation in which a decision needs to be made. Decision-making styles are often shaped by a number of factors such as impulsivity, information gathering and risk assessment. A number of decision-making theories exist, but I’ll introduce you to one particular theory by Janis and Mann called the “conflict model of decision-making.” So, we’ve looked at decision-making styles and parenting styles, and now it’s time to look at the link between how we make decisions and parenting. Decision-making styles have a significant impact on the child and adolescent’s overall wellbeing and mental health outcomes. Adaptive decision-making and the positive impact on mental health can be seen in children and adolescents, and this is often seen when it is associated with higher self-esteem and self-efficacy, the promotion of a sense of control and satisfaction, and linked to lower levels of anxiety symptoms.
Maladaptive decision-making, however, has been associated with increased anxiety symptoms. This is often as a result of impulsive decision-making, which leads to heightened anxiety and stress, overthinking and indecisiveness, that contributes to chronic worry. As well as perfectionism, and excessive risk aversion, can increase the levels of anxiety experienced. In a recent study, we have found that young people who engage in maladaptive decision-making styles, such as hypervigilance, procrastination, or buck-passing, was associated with an increase in anxiety symptomology. The mediating role of decision-making styles in parent and child mental health relationships becomes important, and what we are able to see is that decision-making styles serve as a link between parenting styles and mental health outcomes for children and adolescents. The parenting style a child experiences very often influences or shapes the development of decision-making styles. Different decision-making styles can either amplify or mitigate the impact of parenting styles on mental health outcomes for children.
So, the potential pathways for decision-making styles on anxiety can be seen in both adaptive and maladaptive decision-making. So, in adaptive decision-making, when one evaluates all the possible alternatives and decides which should yield to – yield the best possible outcome, we find that there’s a sense of competence and self-confidence, as well, and this very often reduces anxiety symptoms. However, for maladaptive decision-making, we see that there’s heightened vulnerability to anxiety symptoms that contributes to uncertainty, risk avoidance, rumination, indecisiveness, and reduced engagement in rewarding activities. Understanding parenting styles and their impact on decision-making is important. Understanding the impact of decision-making styles can guide parents in fostering adaptive decision-making skills in their children, and also leads to an awareness of the influence of their parenting, of which could help parents reflect on their own approach when engaging with their children as part of their parenting styles.
So, we might be asking how parents can promote adaptive decision-making in children. Here are three options or tips in which we can promote adaptive decision-making. One is cultivating an authoritative parenting style that combines warmth, support, and reasonable expectations for children. Two, encouraging open communication and collaborative decision-making processes, and three, providing opportunities for children to make age-appropriate choices and experience the consequences.
So, when looking at interventions targeting decision-making skills, what could we do to mitigate anxiety symptoms? We could incorporate decision-making training in school curricula and mental health programmes. So not only providing young children and adolescents with information, but an opportunity to see how they could train and work on their decision-making skills, implementing cognitive behavioural techniques, to address maladaptive decision-making patterns, and provide support and guidance to parents in fostering healthy decision-making processes in their children.
So, we’ve looked at cognitive behavioural techniques and I’d like to give you one particular activity that you could do to develop adaptive decision-making. We could start off by identifying how you think about your problems and your problem solving or decision-making styles. Then the activity could involve listing the steps to successful problem solving, and this often involves six steps. One, identifying the problem precisely, two, write down as many possible solutions as you can, three, think through the pros and cons of each of these solutions, four, learn how to carry out the solution, five, put the plan into action, and six, review what happens.
When looking at this particular activity to developing adaptive decision-making, we could see that the process allows one to follow a decision-making process very similar to vigilant decision-making. You identify the problem at hand, or the decision-making situation, looking at all the possible alternatives, and then to weigh up the pros and cons of each of these alternative solutions for the particular problem at hand, and then to carry out the solutions, and to look at what would be the best plan of action when moving forward, and to review what then happens.
So, in conclusion, we have covered three points. We were introduced to parenting styles and the role it plays in decision-making in children and adolescents. Looking at decision-making styles that plays a significant role in mental health outcomes, and how adaptive decision-making styles promotes positive mental health, while maladaptive styles contributes to anxiety symptoms. Authoritative parenting very often fosters healthy decision-making and mental wellbeing, and there’s a need for ongoing investigation to better understand the complexities of the parent decision-making and mental health relationship.