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Dr Edward Hallowell Hello, my name is Edward Hallowell M.D. I’m a Psychiatrist, a Child and Adult Psychiatrist. I’ve been in practice for some 40 years. My specialty is attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, ADHD, which I have myself. I also have dyslexia and both of these conditions are tremendously misunderstood. People think of them as crippling and disabling, but they need not be at all. They can be absolute assets if you learn to manage them properly. I often say to people, “I’m not in the business of treating disabilities. I’m in the business of unwrapping people’s gifts.” When come – someone comes to see me, I say, “Let’s see how well we can unwrap your gift,” and that reframing makes all the difference in the world.
And so, in the time we have today, I want to drill down on the positives that go with ADHD, not to deny the negatives. They’re well-known and, you know, the various problems ADHD, and dyslexia for that matter, can create, no doubt about it. The prisons are full of people with undiagnosed ADHD, the halls of the addicted, the unemployed, the marginalised, the depressed, the underachieving. So, yes, indeed, ADHD can be a terribly difficult, crippling problem to have, but what most people don’t know is that it can also be a marker of talent, be a springboard to greatness, really.
For example, the – in the – this era of COVID, the man who invented the polymerase chain reaction, the PCR, famous PCR test for COVID, that really, in many ways, since the double helix, the biggest advance in biology, led to all kinds of innovations around DNA testing and whatnot, that man, Kary Mullis, who’s in heaven now, but he won the Nobel Prize in Chemistry for that discovery. And he had major league ADHD, a phenomenally interesting man and quite eccentric American Chemist, but won the Nobel Prize, had ADHD. And in Britain, Richard Branson, you know, one of the great entrepreneurs in aviation and philanthropy, ADHD. You know, in our country, another innovator in the world of aviation, David Neeleman, founded JetBlue Airlines and then went on to found a whole slew of other airlines, also has ADHD. The list goes on and on. Wherever you find a tremendous creative energy, talent, you’ll find ADHD, and that’s what most people don’t know about, because this condition emerges out of the medical model and what do we Doctors do? We treat disease, we specialise in pathology and so, what the general public tends to know about ADHD is the pathology. You don’t go to a Doctor because you’re feeling so well. You go to a Doctor because you’re in pain and you need help, and so, that’s what these children – that’s the context in which these children are seen and their parents have it presented to them that way, as well.
Now, I mention children, but this condition can – stays with you into adulthood and I see probably the – most of my patients now are adults. When I started, back in 1981, they were mostly children, but then we realised this condition does, indeed, continue into adulthood and so – and the biggest undiagnosed group are adults, particularly adult women. And so, probably the majority of my patients now are adults.
As I say, I have the condition myself and so, I understand it from the inside and what I want to show you is how wonderful it can be. As I say, not for a second denying that it can be the opposite of wonderful, it can be pretty awful, but if you handle it properly, what can this condition be? Why can Nobel Prize winners have it and self-made billionaires have it, and leaders in you name a field and I’ll tell you someone who’s a leader in that field who has this condition?
At its heart, at its core, what we have, we who have ADHD have that other people don’t have is an extraordinary imagination. What sets us apart is a prodigious imagination. We take it for granted ‘cause we’ve always had it, but we – most people don’t have the kind of fertile, vivid, active imagination that we have. We are constantly coming up with new ideas, new thoughts, new images, new plans, new possibilities. We’re the dreamer, we’re the visionary, we’re the entrepreneur. We’re forever – or we’re ever – we’re forever wanting to grow things and build things and develop things and create things.
I’ve written 23 books and the reason I write so many books, if I don’t have a book going, I get depressed, and that’s typical of us. We need to create, we need to build. You know, the United States was founded by people with ADHD. We drained off the gene pool from England, you know, the restless ones, the ones who wanted to build and create and were willing to take big chances in the service of doing that.
So, a tremendously active mind and constantly in motion, such that I often make the analogy, “People with ADD have a Ferrari engine for a brain. They have a race car for a brain. They have a brain that’s just going a mile a minute, a runaway brain, a race car for a brain. The problem is they have bicycle brakes, so they don’t have the breaking power to control the power of their mind and so, it tends to run away with them.” And based on that analogy, you know, I call myself a ‘brake specialist’. If you come to see me, I’ll help you develop brakes so that you can win races, instead of spinning out on the curb or crashing into the wall.
A Ferrari with no brakes is a pretty dangerous car, but a Ferrari with brakes wins races, becomes a champion, and that’s what folks with this condition have. Whether it’s a six-year-old or a 60-year-old, you know, and whether it’s a boy or a girl, or a man or a woman, from whatever walk in life, it’s – this was – this is an equal opportunity condition. Anyone can have it, and it’s never too late to find out and my oldest patient right now is 88-years-old and he’s working on completing a book that he’s been wanting to write his whole life long. So, any age you can have it.
People misunderstand it because of the name itself, ADHD, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. We don’t have a deficit of attention. I don’t have a deficit of attention. We have an abundance of attention. As I said, our challenge is to control it. So, it’s not a – if it were a deficit, it would be some form of dementia, which it certainly is not. We have abundant attention and it’s all flashing and firing at the same time. So, not a deficit and, in my opinion, not a disorder, it’s a trait.
Can it be a disorder? Yes. If you don’t know how to manage it, yes, your runaway brain can crash. But, at the same time, if you do know how to manage it, it can be an asset that you can’t buy or teach. Your race car brain can win many races. You can become a champion, a Nobel Prize winner, in fact. So, it’s all a matter of how you manage the power of this extraordinary brain. Another analogy, in addition to the race car brain, I like to use, “Imagine Niagara Falls, a huge, magnificent waterfall in Upstate New York, in the United States, and half in Canada, actually. Niagara Falls is a titanic amount of energy, but it’s just a lot of noise and mist until you build a hydroelectric plant. And so, I’m in the hydroelectric plant. If you think of ADD as Niagara Falls, it’s just a lot of noise and mist until you build a hydroelectric plant, but then you build the hydroelectric plant and you can light up the State of New York.” So, imagine the ADD brain is like Niagara Falls in search of a hydroelectric plant and that hydroelectric plant is usually finding a creative outlet.
In my case it’s writing, someone else it’s building – starting a business, the entrepreneur starting a business. Someone else, it’s doing an experiment in chemistry and coming up with the polymerase chain reaction. But you’re looking for a way of taking this tremendous amount of mental energy and creativity and connecting it to a means of turning it into something productive. Another metaphor I use, “Having untreated ADD is like driving on square wheels.” We get there ‘cause we’re so tenacious, but ba-boom, ba-boom, ba-boom, ba-boom, imagine driving on square wheels. What a tremendous amount of energy that requires. Well, once you learn about the condition and how to manage it, you round out those wheels. The square wheels become round wheels and oh boy, how much further you can go, with even less energy, than on square wheels.
And then, a final analogy I use, because it’s good in understanding what medication does, “Having ADHD is like being near-sighted and not having glasses, and what the treatment for ADD does is it gives you eye glasses.” So, instead of getting through life by squinting, you have eye glasses, and when you have eye glasses, you can see. It doesn’t make you smarter, but it allows you to use your smarts a whole lot more constructively.
So, those are some analogies, and they lead to the interventions that we have, but it all begins with education and it all begins with understanding that you – how your brain works and what your assets are. Instead of just being told as a child that you’re – “You should try harder,” which is what these kids get told from day one, and “Get your act together” and “Get organised” and, you know, “Try to remember things” and so on and so forth, instead of being lectured throughout school on how to, you know, how to work harder, with the diagnosis comes the insight that it’s not a matter of hard work. I mean, hard work always helps, helps anything you’re doing, but telling a kid with ADHD to try harder is about as helpful as telling someone who’s near-sighted to squint harder.
And by the way, it doesn’t stop with just exhortations to try harder. I mean, I’ve become friends with a man by the name of Dave Pilkey, an extraordinary man. And he went to school at a Lutheran school in the Midwest of the United States and he used to get paddled, hit with a board on his butt regularly, all the way through school, not just as a little kid, but all the way through school, high school, because he could make people laugh. That was his great sin, and the Teachers didn’t like that and so, they kept hitting him, and hitting him didn’t do anything, other than, you know, hurt and make him angry, but he kept making people laugh.
Well, he had the last laugh, he’s – now, Dave Pilkey is the Author of the Captain Underpants series and it’s sold over 80 million copies and has delighted children around the world for many years now. And just another example of how a person can take this condition and turn it into a huge asset, and he, like me, has both ADHD and dyslexia. But that abuse that he suffered, physical abuse at the hands of Teachers who, you know, supposedly were trying to help him, could’ve ruined him. It could’ve broken him, and it does. These are the kids who get battered and abused and, you know, unfortunately, it can break them and permanently disable them. So, that – what I call the moral model, that these symptoms are the result of intention, of not wanting to do well enough, that’s been killing children for hundreds of years.
But when you put it – when you look at it through the lens of neurology and of medicine and you discover this is a wiring difference, then no longer, you know, are you telling them to try harder. You’re giving them methods of focusing, of focusing when they’re, you know, when they’re not necessarily able to. And, you know, it also depends upon understanding what this condition is. The medical model, the deficit disorder model, defines it in terms of three negatives, you know, distractibility, impulsivity and hyperactivity, or just general feelings of restlessness. And the whole diagnostic manual, the so-called DSM fifth edition, defines ADHD in terms of those three symptoms. There’s nine elements on the axis of inattention and distractibility and then, there are nine other elements on the axis of impulsivity and hyperactivity. And if you have six out of nine on either axis, you qualify for the diagnosis.
Well, think of each one of those three symptoms inattention, distractibility and impulsivity and hyperactivity, and turn each one on its head, and you get a positive. And the flipside of distractibility, curiosity, “What’s that? What’s that? What’s that? What’s that?” You know, that’s a – that’s our driving force. That’s – we’re endlessly curious. When I was a little boy, I was called “the question box.” People in my family got tired of listening to all my questions, and they were endless, ‘cause they were driven by curiosity. That’s my driving force to this day. Excuse me. I’m 73-years-old and I’m still a question box, “What’s this? What’s that? Why this? Why that?” And it really – curiosity is what leads to progress in all fields.
Well, the second one, impulsivity, now, that’s so bad, right? You’re impulsive, you should think before you act. What is creativity but impulsivity gone right? You don’t plan to have a new idea. New ideas come unbitten, unexpected, unannounced, in the shower in the morning, on your drive to work, in the middle of a baseball game, where you suddenly, ‘pop’, new idea arrives impulsively. Creativity depends upon weak brakes, depends upon some degree of disinhibition and so, you don’t want to eradicate impulsivity, but once again, you want to learn how to manage it and control it, so you can trap these new ideas when they arrive and then do something with them, not get rid of impulsivity. You get rid of impulsivity, you get rid of creativity. Again, it’s a matter of learning control over it.
And then, the third element, the hyperactivity, you get to my – be my age, I’m 73, it’s called energy. I’m really glad I have this little turbo pack with me all the time. It’s why I can do a lot of things and start a lot of projects and, you know. So, this is by way of saying while ADHD can cause problems, the assets we are born with, and this is genetic, the assets we’re born with curiosity, creativity, energy, channelled properly produce results like nothing else can. Because you can’t buy curiosity, you can’t teach curiosity. You can encourage it, but you can’t instil it. You can’t manufacture it, and the same thing with creativity. You can’t buy or teach creativity. You can encourage it or discourage it, but, you know, you need a certain native DNA quotient of creativity to be that way. And then, energy, the same thing, you can encourage it, but you can’t buy it or teach it.
And that’s why it’s very important that we not label these kids with negative handles early on. We – a lot of damage is done. Just the term ‘ADHD’ can create a kind of, stigmatised, negative energy. You want to be careful not to do that, and all the other moral diagnoses that get made, “wayward, lazy, bad, wilful, get his act together,” all this kind of stuff. I say his, could just as easily be a girl. You want to frame it in a way that allows for hope, intelligent hope, realistic hope, and it is absolutely realistic to believe that these kids can grow up and become world movers, world changers. Whoever invented the wheel I’m sure had ADHD, you know, and – ‘cause we’re the originalists. We’re the disruptors in the best sense of that word. Whoever first said, “The world is round, not flat,” I’m sure that person had ADHD as well. And, you know, it – we can get people angry at us, ‘cause we, kind of, point out new ideas, but at the same time, progress in the world depends upon us.
So, this is all by way of saying if you have this condition, or you know a child who has it, or an adult for that matter, if you see those symptoms of curiosity, creativity, energy and the negative counterpart of distractibility, impulsivity and hyperactivity, see a Doctor who comes at this from a strength-based perspective. ‘Cause you – what you want to do, as I say, is unwrap the gift, not squash down the condition. You can look at my – I’ve written a lot of books, but the most recent one is called “ADHD 2.0” and then, I have one coming out in England in September called “ADHD Explained.” And, you know, it is a lifechanging diagnosis, where you can go from struggling and, you know, feeling lost, maybe suffering with an addiction, maybe getting in trouble with the law, maybe divorced many times or in school struggling and failing, and once the diagnosis is made and the plan is set forth on how to unwrap the gift, all of that can change. You know, you don’t become Joe or Jill Normal, you’ll never be that, but you become Joe or Jill Extraordinary, Joe or Jill Supernormal. You go beyond what anyone ever thought you could do, including yourself and, you know, most people with this condition sell themselves way short.
I’m here to tell you, ‘cause I’ve seen it over and over and over again, the people who have this condition are the people who change the world for the better, who come up with the new ideas. They don’t know how they do it. The honest answer to, “How did you do that?” in my world is, “I don’t know, but I did it, somehow or other.” And what we want to do is just create the conditions where that’s possible, ‘cause if you’re – if you grow up in a fear filled environment, where your lead instinct is to shut it down, then you won’t develop the way you otherwise might.
So, you want to make sure your child, or yourself, is recognised as having talent, needing to do some work to unwrap that talent, but on your way to becoming, you know, a real contributor to civilisation. That’s absolutely what can happen. Unwrap the gift, unwrap the gift, that’s my message to you and get over the deficit disorder model. It’s inaccurate, it’s wrong, it’s damaging and instead, think of it as a condition that has positive qualities that can’t be bought, can’t be taught, and with some structure and intervention and guidance, those nascent qualities can blossom and grow and change the world.
Okay, that’s it from me for today. Thank you very much.