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Dr Amina Al-Yassin This video includes some tips for Social Workers and Youth Workers when dealing with a child with an anxiety disorder. As a Social Worker or Youth Worker, you are ideally placed to help identify children who may be struggling with their emotions or with anxiety. Some useful early signs to look out for are children who are no longer attending their activities, who are absent or who are late, who are withdrawing and less – you know, not enjoying being part of the group or the activities as much, or who maybe were doing things that they found enjoyable previously and are no longer doing them. These are all things to watch out for and to make us think and wonder about whether there may be an underlying anxiety disorder.
If you are concerned, speak to the child, speak to their family and see whether anyone else has picked up on this. See if there’s anything that anyone has found useful or helpful for the child. And if, for example, the family have tips or strategies or things that they’ve been trying which they find helpful, it might be really comforting for the child for you to be able to carry on those structures and routines in your setting, too. When we’re dealing with children with anxiety or, in fact, any mental health concern, one of the most useful things we can do is to adopt a whole organisation approach to mental health. So, that means when we deal with mental health as a whole, and not just focus on the child in question. So, in your youth club or in your social work activity, you can consider running activities for all the children involved, in which you teach them about mental health, called psychoeducation, or when you teach them useful strategies, such as relaxation tips, grounding techniques or mindfulness. In this way, you’re teaching all children about how mental health is important, how to recognise the signs and how to help ourselves and how to reach out for more help when needed.
Not only will this help the child in question, but also, because it normalises it and it – and all the children are involved, it means that it makes it a less stigmatising issue. It can promote tolerance, it can promote respect and it can mean that children who may also have been suffering silently, or who may not have come to our attention, may feel more empowered to seek out support. So, a whole organisation approach is very helpful when it comes to mental health.
Another useful thing, as a Social Worker or a Youth Worker, is to ensure that there are routines and structures in place in the activities you do. Children and young people with anxiety often find it really helpful to know what’s coming and to have a routine, to have expectations about the rules and how your group works. So, ensure that you have a timetable for the day, that children and young people know what to expect, what’s coming next, what’s happening next week, if there’s going to be a holiday or a break, just so that they’re able to prepare themselves for what may be coming.
Another important thing, especially in youth work settings, is to ensure that any bullying is recognised early and that a stop is put to any bullying. Bullying, being bullied or even witnessing bullying can really increase anxiety in students. So, ensure that you have a bullying policy in place and that this is adhered to and followed closely whenever there are any signs of bullying. Bullying is one of – you know, in my mental health clinic, many, many peop – many, many children and young people cite bullying as being one of the reasons for their mental health dropping. So, it’s really important that we’re able to detect this early and do something about it.
As a Youth Worker, you will be running many activities for young people and many of these activities may be really helpful, especially for children and young people with anxiety. These include things like getting to know you activities, where you undertake activities together to get the – to know the child or young person more. These can help build relationships. These can help build that relationship between you and the child, which may mean that they will feel more comfortable talking to you about anything, if they’re required.
By also helping the child to do activities which contribute to problem solving, you’ll be teaching them an important life skill and one that may help them if they ever need to cope with anxiety provoking situations in the future. It’s always important for young people to know that you are there for them and that they’re never going to be in trouble for being anxious or sad or having any difficult emotions, and that they should know who to turn to and who to speak to, if needed.
One of the most useful things I’ve learnt about anxiety is that anxiety is part of a cycle, where you have the – you are – you have the anxiety and if you avoid the thing that’s making you anxious, it can, for a very short period of time, make you feel better. However, in the long-term, that actually makes the anxiety grow. So, for example, in a youth work setting, if you have a child who finds the group setting quite anxiety provoking and therefore, prefers to be doing a solitary activity in a room by themselves, or in a corner of the room, that may make them feel a little bit better for a short period of time. However, over time, that will make them even more fearful of the group setting because they’ve never experienced being part of that group and realising that it is safe, or maybe even enjoyable.
And so, anxiety, which leads to avoidance, can give you temporary relief, but then it can lead to growth of anxiety. So, as a Social Worker or a Youth Worker, a useful thing that you’re able to do is to help children to expose themselves in a very gradual and very supported way to the things that make them feel anxious. So, that they’re able to realise that they can do it and that they grow in their self-efficacy or that feeling that they are able to do difficult things and that they’re able to survive them and maybe even enjoy them. This helps the child to develop a growth mindset, which can be really helpful when it comes to anxiety.
A very important part of your role as a Youth Worker, or a Social Worker, is to know where to get more help and support, if needed. Know what your local referral pathways are. Who should you speak to if you’re worried? Who is your local safeguarding lead? What are the ways to contact a mental health professional, if needed? This may be through the child’s school, or it may be through the child’s GP. Ensure that you’re aware of these pathways, so that if you are consistently concerned about a child and think that some professional help is needed, you’re able to help access it for them. You know the child really well, you’ve seen them regularly and you see them in a context outside of home and school. And so, the information that you provide will be invaluable to that referral and will be giving a very different perspective and a unique insight into the child, their behaviour and their struggles and their strengths. And so, your opinion would be very helpful on any referrals.
Finally, being a Social Worker or a Youth Worker can be a tough job and supporting a child or young person with anxiety can be really hard work. So, don’t forget to look after yourself first. If you feel like you’re having any difficulties with anxiety, low mood or any other mental health issues, then do not hesitate to seek support. You can always reach out to your GP, to your Therapist or your – to your mental health professional for advice and they will always be happy to help and happy to point you in the right direction.